Roden Chiwaya

12/03/2025

To the vibrant and ambitious youth of today, happy Youth Day! As the author of The Other Side of Expectations, I want to remind you that your dreams are valid, your voices matter, and your futures are bright. Don't be afraid to challenge the status quo, to think differently, and to pursue your passions with unwavering dedication. You are the leaders, innovators, and game-changers of tomorrow. Keep shining, keep striving, and never lose sight of your potential!

05/03/2025

# # Your 20s: The Seeds You Sow for Your Future Harvest

The saying "life begins at 40" resonates deeply for many, and it's not without reason. Your 20s, a period often romanticized, are in reality a crucible, a time of intense pressure and pivotal choices. This decade is where you plant the seeds that will determine the harvest of your later life.

It's a time of stark contrasts. You witness the seemingly effortless success of others, often fueled by advantages you don't possess. This can breed feelings of inadequacy and a sense of being left behind. The pressure to "have it all" – career, relationships, financial stability – can be overwhelming. Romantic relationships, too, can become a source of anxiety, as partners may prioritize perceived stability and material possessions. You might find yourself feeling adrift, even when you believe you're on the right path.

This period, however, is not meant to be a time of despair, but of strategic action. Your 20s are a critical investment window. Here's how to navigate this challenging, yet transformative, phase:

**1. Invest Wisely, Beyond Finances:**

* **Time is Your Most Valuable Asset:** Don't squander it trying to impress others. Focus on building your skills and knowledge.
* **Financial Prudence:** Avoid frivolous spending. Invest in yourself, your education, or a business venture.
* **Invest in Yourself:** This is the time to learn new skills, read books, and gather knowledge.

**2. Chart Your Course:**

* **Create a 5-Year Plan:** Define your goals, break them down into actionable steps, and track your progress. Don't be discouraged by setbacks; adjust your plan as needed.
* **Prioritize Education:** If you have the opportunity to pursue education, seize it. It's an investment that will pay dividends throughout your life.
* **Embrace Entrepreneurship:** If you have a business idea, pursue it with passion and determination. Don't wait for the "perfect" moment; start now.

**3. Build Your Foundation, Not Your Image

11/01/2025

Something for the mind.

24/12/2024

04/12/2024

I recently wrote a chapter in my next book,that I really connected with.It spoke to me on a personal level and made me realise how much I want to share my story with the world.I hope when you read my next book you will find it inspiring as I did.
Let's keep on reading, keep on dreaming and keep on believing.
Your favourite author
Mr Chiwaya.

of mad confidence

19/09/2024

The Art Of Acceptance

My name is Roden Mayaya Chiwaya. Mayaya, my middle name, has been a source of both struggle and pride throughout my life. It's a beautiful, unique name, a Chookwe/Luvale word with deep cultural significance. Yet, for a long time, I felt a strange disconnect from it.

At school, surrounded by peers with more common names, Mayaya felt like a whisper from home, rarely uttered. None of my official documents bore this cherished part of my identity. This created a rift, a silent judgment I placed upon myself for not embracing it fully.

However, as I matured, a shift began. Curiosity sparked, and I delved deeper into the meaning of Mayaya. Uncovering its roots in my heritage, a sense of awe bloomed. This wasn't just a name; it was a connection to where I come from, a marker of my heritage. It set me apart, a badge of honor representing where I came from.

Mayaya wasn't just mine, either. I remember a young lady who playfully fashioned another name from it, a testament to its inherent creativity. This simple act solidified its uniqueness, a quality I craved more of in myself.

Mayaya's journey reflects a universal truth: acceptance doesn't always come easy. We all encounter aspects of ourselves, be it a name, a physical characteristic, or an experience, that initially feel foreign or unwelcome. But within that discomfort lies an opportunity.

Many of us grapple with similar challenges, things that once felt like burdens transform into the very things that define us. Embrace those quirks, those experiences that set you apart. Embrace them because within them lies a story, a tapestry woven from your heritage and your experiences.

Accepting these unique threads doesn't mean blind approval of everything; it's about acknowledging the whole picture. It's about understanding that the things we sometimes struggle with can become sources of strength and beauty.

So, to anyone out there wrestling with a part of themselves, a name they rarel

16/08/2024

Hey hey get yourself a book and a t shirt that tells a story.
We just delivered the other side of expectations book and t shirt to the manager at Stanbic Bank Zambia solwezi.
Thank you sir for being part of the movement.Together we change the narrative.

06/08/2024

Title:The Disappearing Of Boy Child In The Community

The world is in uproar over the girl child. Her rights, her education, her safety – these are battles fought tirelessly. But amidst the righteous clamor, a silent crisis unfolds. A crisis that threatens the very fabric of our society. The boy child is disappearing.

Gone are the days of carefree boyhood, replaced by a generation of young men burdened by societal expectations, academic pressures, and a dearth of male role models. They are lost, adrift in a world that seems to have forgotten them. While we champion the cause of girls, we've inadvertently created a generation of boys who feel invisible, inadequate, and alone.

The consequences are dire. Rising rates of mental health issues, academic underachievement, and social disengagement paint a grim picture. Our boys are growing up without the tools to navigate life's challenges, and it's time to sound the alarm.

It's not about pitting boys against girls. It’s about recognizing that a society that neglects half its population is doomed to fail. We must create a world where both genders thrive, where boys feel valued, supported, and empowered. The future of our communities depends on it.

It's time to rewrite the narrative. Let's ensure that every child, regardless of gender, has the opportunity to reach their full potential. The boy child deserves our attention, our care, and our unwavering support.

Are we ready to save a generation?

01/08/2024

chapa neighbour defying expectations.
You can't relate because you are yet to buy.
Get yourself a t shirt that.

27/07/2024

We're on a mission to transform our community! Started with a powerful meeting at Holy Cross School in Lumwana. Together, we can make a difference. 💪 "

21/07/2024

Backpack full of dreams, heart full of fire. This young soul is ready to take on the real world, one adventure at a time.

20/07/2024

The happiness we get after delivering the other side of expectations