16/03/2026
All Hell Broke Loose
Ifyabukaya, as I write this, I am trembling. I honestly don’t know what to do, so I have turned to the people on this forum for advice.
My name is JS from within Lusaka in my mid twenties.
What started out as a joke has now turned into something frightening. For some time now, I have been seeing a woman who is much older than me a sugar mummy, to be specific.
She is about twice my age, but that never really bothered me because she is very wealthy. Her husband passed away not long ago, and just last month his benefits were paid out. To be honest, my intention was to benefit from her financially so that I could stabilize my own life. Since graduating from university, I have been applying for jobs everywhere without success.
In the meantime, I started going to the gym to build stamina and improve my physique so that I could attract women. This strategy has actually worked quite well, and I have managed to attract both young and older women.
However, the most recent woman I am seeing has become very controlling. She closely monitors my movements and even keeps an eye on my social media platforms. Because of this, my relationship with my longtime girlfriend is now hanging by a thread.
The truth is that I do not have any real feelings for this older woman, but her money is tempting, which makes it difficult for me to walk away.
The real problem, however, is something I cannot explain. I am not sure whether it is because she was not properly cleansed after her husband’s death, or whether we rushed into being intimate too soon after he passed away. Whatever the case, for the past two weeks I have been seeing him.
At first, it started with dreams. I ignored them, thinking they meant nothing. But now I am seeing the man even during the day. I tried to tell the woman about it, but she thinks I am lying or making excuses.
Mwebantu (my people), what should I do to stop seeing this man? I never harmed him I was only interested in the woman he left behind.
I thank you!
