Human behavior.

22/05/2023

17/04/2023

Hence I don't argue, I rather discuss.

17/04/2023

😂😆

02/08/2022

Great s*x should last at least an hour.
Any woman takes about 20 mins to warm up before she can reach the peak of climax and have an amazing or**sm.
Go down on your woman. Spend at least 20 mins on just foreplay to get her aroused and her va**na well lubricated and relaxed. A man that doesn't do cu*******us simply doesn't deserve to enter her. And a woman that doesn't do fe****io does not deserve to be ravaged either. That's my humble opinion.

If a woman let's the man enter her before she is wet enough and aroused enough she will grow angry with herself and it will be a bad energy exchange for both involved. If she says yes when she means no it is equivalent to her allowing the energetics of r**e. She will feel used and abused and she will hate her man for it as much as she will hate herself. If the man doesn't feel so lucky to have his woman as to court her all day and let the entire day be foreplay through loving gesture he is not happy with himself or his woman.

A man that is happy with himself and his partner will make efforts to woo her all day long and lavish her with affection and attentiveness and make sure his woman feels loved. Foreplay to such a man is also conversations, pillow talk, making her breakfast in bed, taking her to dinner, watching her favorite show, slow dancing in the kitchen between doing dishes, going for a nice walk or exercising together. The list of what foreplay can be is only left to the imagination to such a man.

And his woman will be radiant and glowing as a result and they will be deeply attracted to one another, making their s*xual intimacy reach otherworldly heights as their love making will be a deep spiritual affair and energy exchange of the purest kind, heart to heart, Soul to soul.
The value of a man is shown in the radiance of his woman. The value of a woman is shown in the playfulness of her man. He keeps her safe, she keeps him wild. She a beauty, He a beast.
To stay in this kind of passionate partnership it is imperative you keep doing what you did in the beginning to get her.
Never stop romancing and courting each other. Never stop playing and having fun. That's when the love dies.

- Ulf Haukenes
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15/07/2022

Let's strive to achieving these goals.

13/07/2022

School principal married to a nurse with 2 children.

Combined salary R50k
Groceries R6500
Bond R8000
School fees R6000.00
Installment R4500.00
Staff car R3000.00 (wife and two kids)
Fuel R2500 (Goes up every month)
Medical Aid R7000.00
DSTV R500
Wifi R1000
Life cover R2000
Rates R1200.00
Phone contract R400
Car insurance R600

Estimated total living expenses +-R42k.

The couple is left with R8k or less throughout the month.

Still you need to add clothing accounts, alcohol, date nights, maybe girlfriend allowance for side chick, beauty products, repayment of previous loans etc.

The couple is dead broke, and they live hand to mouth.

Ladies and gentlemen this is the hidden reality that they will not tell you. Less than 1% of South Africans are financially free.

The only thing that will confuse you is what people are doing to hide poverty.

The iPhones, expensive clothes etc come from access to credit that makes people look like they are doing well in life.

Stay in your lane. People are financially suffering from debts.

15/06/2022

Kopa le naganeleng bana. I came across this👇

Morning ladies,
I have been thinking a lot about the post from this weekend “WHY HAVE CHILDREN WITH A MARRIED MAN” and would like to comment my experience.

I am a child of a married man, my mom has two children my older brother and I, both from different married man, I’ll speak for myself. I never knew my father even though we stayed 30km apart…we just never spoke about it until I was a frustrated teenager and always cried my mom started lying saying he’s dead then jiki jiki she said he’s a homeless drunakrd I shouldn’t want to know him then finally she was begging me not to want to know him sharp, when I was 24 I put my foot down, I cried because I longed for a father in my life, she finally told me he’s married and gave me his contacts.

We had a relationship for a few months which was only whatsapp ONLY never a phone call, we only met once that’s it! A secret relationship(like my moms relationship with him).
The relationship died like mjolo relationships lol we just stopped talking and both deleted nrs… it hurts being rejected and being a secret even now in my adult age I struggle with relationships, I’m in constant need of a man’s protection and love like a father loves his daughter.
My father NEVER even mentioned meeting my half siblings, I too never initiated it because I don’t want to break another woman’s heart.

My relationship with mom is okay , but deep deep down I’m stuggling to forgive her, she doesn’t know it but I’m trying to find ways to forgive her.
Now I’m 28 she keeps telling me I should just make a baby with anyone because I’m working. Mind you she’s still dating another married man now. (But asikho lapho) It’s hard for me to forgive her for what she did, I can’t even confront her cause it’s her life and i I can’t judge. It’s hard to respect her, hence I choose to distance myself yet she tries to call me everyday. I sometimes wish my aunt was my mom.

deep down I hate what she did to me,not sure if I hate her. Also, I’m Not sure about my brother. She told me we share the same father but when I was with my “father” he told me he only has 5kids (he didn’t include my mothers son) my my heart still breaks I’ve never told my brother or my mother that “father” didn’t count my brother as his children.
We don’t talk about our paternity at all. I just wonder what type of trauma my brother is dealing with personally, (we are close but don’t talk about this) If it’s worse than mine or similar. But on the outside we are happy hey.

Mom never even apologised, she gave birth and left us kwa gogo and we only lived together when I was approaching high school.
I have childhood trauma based on that, I will never never have a child with a married man and if my husband makes a child outside I’ll definitely leave him.
Financially She’s not a bad mom, she’s working with her own property and assets even has two cars, she’s doing well in life. Our relationship looks good but Mina I’m having personal issues with her that she doesn’t know about and I’m not able to articulate them to her. She tried to take us to good schools but I need(Ed) a father in my life.

Just shedding some light on the perspective from the child, I’m not looking for sympathy but I urge women to really think and think hard for the children. They’re the most hurt ones in this whole mess. As a mother you can move on and get another man, bastard kids can’t move on and just get a father who’s wont keep them a secret. Angilwi! please don’t bash me I don’t have a father