16/06/2026
The Unlikely Bully
The Unlikely Bully tells the powerful story of Themba, a tall, strong Grade 6 learner in Durban who becomes the unlikely target of bullying by Steve, a classmate of short stature. When Themba's teachers and friends dismiss his complaints because "Steve is half your size," Themba feels invisible and ashamed of his own height.
Enter a wise old woman at the beach who, through a dream-like journey beneath the ocean, teaches Themba profound lessons from sea creatures: the Clownfish who uses kindness for protection, the Octopus who uses cleverness over conflict, and the Sardines whose strength lies in unity.
Armed with this wisdom, Themba returns to school and responds to Steve not with anger, but with unexpected kindness and inclusion, creating "a ripple of kindness" that begins to transform their entire school community.
This Book Is For
Primary Audience:
• Children aged 8–12 (Grades 4–7)
• Children who have experienced bullying, whether as targets, witnesses, or even those who have bullied others.
• Parents and caregivers looking for meaningful conversation starters about kindness, empathy, and standing up for others.
Secondary Audience:
• Teachers and school counsellors: this book is an excellent classroom resource with built-in discussion questions and a note on respectful language.
• Libraries and schools seeking diverse, culturally relevant South African children's literature.
• Anyone interested in social-emotional learning and building inclusive communities.
What Makes This Book Special
✨ Unique Perspective – It flips the bullying narrative by making the "big kid" the victim and the "small kid" the bully, challenging stereotypes about who can be a bully or victim.
✨ Culturally Rich - It’s set in Durban with beautiful references to jacaranda trees, the Indian Ocean, and South African school life.
✨ Ocean Metaphors – The underwater dream sequence is both magical and deeply educational, introducing children to marine biology while teaching life lessons.
✨ Practical Wisdom – Includes discussion questions and a glossary of sea creatures, making it perfect for classroom or family reading.
✨ Powerful Message – "True strength is not in the body, but in the heart and the mind."
✨ Respectful Language – Includes a thoughtful note explaining why "midget" is offensive and how to use respectful language when referring to people with dwarfism.
Why It Resonates
This book understands something crucial: bullying is not about size—it's about power, insecurity, and the courage to break the cycle. By showing that Steve's bullying stems from feeling unseen and powerless, the story invites empathy without excusing harmful behaviour.
The message is clear: responding with kindness and understanding can calm the roughest seas.