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Let’s talk about how to start a conversation with a man on social media.Nowadays, a lot of people meet through Facebook,...
27/02/2026

Let’s talk about how to start a conversation with a man on social media.

Nowadays, a lot of people meet through Facebook, Instagram, or dating apps.

But starting a convo online is completely different from meeting in real life.

You don’t know each other yet, and there’s no trust.

So when you start talking online, you have to be gentle and subtle…

Otherwise, you might scare him off.

So, start with just one small thing.

Don’t do too much at once, and also don’t send long messages.

I’ll walk you through it step by step.

1️⃣ Let him know you exist

Use this method when you just know each other online and have never talked before.

Here’s what you do:

Like 1-2 of his recent photos.

Photos of him traveling, hanging out with friends, doing outdoor activities, things like that.

Don’t like too many pics, and don’t scroll all the way down and like old pictures.

2️⃣ Leave a comment under a photo

If you want to leave a clearer signal, write one short sentence like this:

“This place looks kinda familiar.”

“I’ve been wanting to try this place too.”

“Can I ask where this place is?”

Just one short sentence like that is enough.

3️⃣ Add him when there’s something in common

Only send a friend request when there’s a clear reason.

For example:

You went to the same school.

You work in the same field.

You have mutual friends.

When there’s a reason, it doesn’t feel random.

Adding each other makes sense.

4️⃣ After you add him on Facebook, send a short message

Here’s the rule:

You only text him one sentence, and only mention one detail.

For example:

“I saw you went to that school too?”

“I saw you eat at that place too, right?”

“I saw you watch that show too, just like me.”

Just keep it that simple.

5️⃣ Use if you have mutual friends

You could lightly mention the mutual friend like this:

“I saw you know her too?”

“I just met her the other day, she mentioned you.”

Just mention your friend once.

If he replies or asks something back, then you continue the conversation.

If he doesn’t reply, you stop, don’t send another message.

At this point, if you’ve successfully started a conversation with him online, you might start wondering:

“Who should ask to meet?”

Since you started the conversation, let him suggest a meeting.

If you want to drop a small hint, say something like this:

“Are you doing anything this weekend?”

Not “Talking to you is so fun, should we meet up alone?”

To sum it up, the rule when starting a conversation online is:

Keep it simple, short, and have a reason.

Don’t send long messages.

Don’t ask too many questions.

If he wants to keep talking, he’ll reply and keep the conversation going.

Next, I’ll share with you how to tell if someone actually likes you or not.

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Anh My

There are things you shouldn’t say on a date if you want him to ask you out again.On a date, it’s not about talking a lo...
25/02/2026

There are things you shouldn’t say on a date if you want him to ask you out again.

On a date, it’s not about talking a lot.

Because there are certain things… that once you say them, the man will instantly lose interest.

He might feel hurt by what you said, or he might feel like you’re not emotionally safe.

So here are 4 things you should avoid saying on a date:

1️⃣ Don’t talk about your ex

On the first few dates, don’t bring up your ex.

Because he’ll feel like you’re still attached to the past.

If you absolutely have to mention it, keep it short.

For example:

“I dated someone before, but we weren’t compatible, so we ended it.”

That’s it.

Don’t analyze who was right or wrong.

Don’t explain how you were treated.

If he keeps asking and you don’t want to go deeper, give a short, flat answer so he’ll move on.

For example, if he asks, “What do you mean not compatible?”

You can say:

“We just weren’t a good match in many ways. I don’t even remember clearly anymore.”

Then change the topic.

2️⃣ Don’t criticize your own body

If he agreed to go on a date with you, that already means he accepts how you look.

So don’t put yourself down.

Don’t say things like:

“I’m so fat.”

“I’m ugly.”

“I need to fix this, fix that.”

Don’t complain about your weight, your skin, your hair, or any part of your body.

Sometimes he didn’t even notice.

But once you say it, he’ll start focusing on exactly what you just criticized.

If you’re working out or taking care of yourself, just talk about what you’re doing.

For example: “I recently started going to the gym.”

Note: “I’m so out of shape, so I had to start going to the gym.”

3️ Don’t speak badly about others

Don’t talk badly about your friends.

Don’t criticize others.

Don’t share other people’s private stories.

When you talk badly about someone, he’ll think:

“When I’m not around, will she talk about me like that too?”

And if he’s the one who speaks badly about someone else, you can just say, “Let’s leave that in the past.”

Or stay quiet and gently switch the topic.

4️⃣ Don’t say things that make him uncomfortable

These are things that make people uncomfortable:

– Showing off or putting down his job.

For example:

“This job probably doesn’t pay much, right?”

“Why don’t you find a better job?”

“This industry is hard to survive in now.”

– Asking personal questions when you just met.

For example:

“How much do you make every month?”

“Why aren’t you married yet? You’re not that young anymore.”

“Why did you break up with your ex? Tell me, I won’t judge.”

One important tip:

Don’t interrupt him.

Let him finish speaking, wait a bit, then respond.

To sum up, avoid these 4 things when you go on a date:

Talking about your ex.

Putting yourself down.

Speaking badly about others.

Saying things that make him uncomfortable.

You don’t need to say anything impressive.

Just don’t make him uncomfortable, and the conversation will naturally flow better.

If he’s interested, he’ll want to see you again.

Up next, I’ll show you how to make a man you’ve never met come talk to you first.

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Anh My

At work, you might meet a man who you think is decent.But you’re stuck with 3 things:You’re coworkers.You don’t know if ...
23/02/2026

At work, you might meet a man who you think is decent.

But you’re stuck with 3 things:

You’re coworkers.

You don’t know if he’s just being friendly… or actually interested.

You also don’t wanna make things awkward for everyone, or for him.

So let me share how you can lightly let him know you’re interested when you’re coworkers.

The rule is: just test it lightly.

Don’t make it too obvious and create unnecessary awkwardness.

1/ ASK HIM TO COME ALONG AFTER WORK

Meaning, you ask him to come along with your group of colleagues.

For example, you text him:

“We’re going out for drinks after work. Wanna come?”

“Our group’s meeting up tonight. It’ll be fun if you come.”

“We usually grab lunch together. You should come with us sometime.”

2/ TEXT HIM ABOUT SOMETHING HE MENTIONED

Whether it’s during a meeting or while working, there’s always something random that comes up outside of work.

And you could use that exact detail to text him after work.

For example:

“Earlier you said that “bun bo” place was really good. Can you send me the address?”

“That song you played earlier was so good. What was the name again? Could you send it to me?”

3/ DROP A SHORT COMPLIMENT TO GIVE HIM AN OPENING

Just one short compliment.

No explanation, no overdoing it.

For example:

“Wow, you look good today.”

“I’m serious, you’ve got great style.”

“You explained that so clearly. I understood it right away.”

And those are simple ways to let your coworker know you’re interested.

Let me add one more thing to turn the flirting up a little.

What you do is: tease him a bit.

For example:

“You’re always picking on me at work. Outside, we’re on an equal level.”

Or:

“You’re so serious. Are you normal outside?”

“No one dares to mess with you in here. Let’s see how you are outside.”

But only use this when you’ve already talked and texted back and forth a few times.

If you haven’t built that connection yet and you say this, he’ll immediately know you’re into him.

To sum it up:

Ask him to come along when you’re going out with the group.

Use a small detail to text him after work.

Drop one short compliment.

If things feel comfortable, slowly increase it – tease him a little.

Oh, and let me show you: what not to say if you want him to ask you out again and again.

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Anh My

21/02/2026

General rules for star a conversation online

Many women don’t know if a man actually likes them… or if he’s just being polite.The truth is: men show it through actio...
20/02/2026

Many women don’t know if a man actually likes them… or if he’s just being polite.

The truth is: men show it through actions.

If he likes you, you’ll clearly see it in what he does.
1/ HE LOOKS AT YOU A LOT
Whether you’re at a café, in a group of friends, or having dinner together…

You’ll still catch him looking your way.

And when you talk, he looks straight at you.

If this happens again and again → he likes you.

2/ HE STAYS CLOSE TO YOU

Even in a big group, he still sits near you, stands near you, walks in the same direction as you.

If you move somewhere else, he’ll look a little thrown off.

Then he’ll finally find a way to be near you again.

3/ HE FINDS REASONS TO TALK TO YOU

For example:

You say you like a movie, he says he’s been wanting to watch it too.

You mention a café, he says he knows that place.

If you’re ordering food together, he asks what you’re getting.

Basically, he tries to talk with you whenever there’s a chance.

4/ HE ASKS ABOUT YOU

He’s curious about you and wants to know more, so he asks:

What do you do for work?

Where are you from? Where is your hometown?

Do you live alone or with family?

What do you usually do on weekends?

When you answer, he keeps asking more. He doesn’t just stop at one question.

5/ HE WANTS TO SEE YOU AGAIN

He asks for your number.

He texts after you two meet.

He likes your photos right after he gets home.

He talks about the next time you two could meet.

Maybe he doesn’t ask you out again right away, but he keeps the connection going.

6/ HE TALKS ABOUT DOING THINGS TOGETHER

For example:

“Let’s go watch that movie sometime.”

“I’ll take you to try this place one day.”

He says “we” or “you and me”, not “the whole group.”

7/ HE TOUCHES YOU GENTLY

Not in a disrespectful way…

But when he feels that you two like each other, he’ll want to get a little closer.

Maybe he lightly touches your hand.

Places his hand behind your back when walking through a crowd.

Or finds an excuse to give you a high-five.

8/ HE LEANS TOWARD YOU

When you talk, he leans in a little closer.

He looks at you.

And especially, he answers in longer sentences (because he wants the conversation to keep going).

9/ HE CARES ABOUT SMALL DETAILS

For example, he asks:

“Are you cold? Do you wanna wear my jacket?”

“Do you want another drink? I’ll order it for you.”

“How are you getting home? Are you going anywhere else after this?”

When a man cares about small details, it means he’s paying attention to you.

10/ HE COMPLIMENTS YOU

For example:

“You’re really charming when you talk.”

“You’re cute. You have a beautiful smile.”

“I feel happy and comfortable talking to you.

11/ HE SMILES MORE WHEN HE’S AROUND YOU

He smiles when you talk.

He talks more than usual.

And when he talks, he looks at you. He doesn’t look around much.

As you can see, there are 11 signs.

When a man likes you, there will always be actions, one way or another.

The more of these signs you see, the more he likes you.

And if you barely see any of them… or nothing feels clear…

It simply means he’s not that into you.

You don’t have to guess.

Just look at his actions and you’ll know.

Let me share more with you about “Why you shouldn’t agree to low-effort dates in the early talking stage.”

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Anh My

20/02/2026

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You two keep texting and calling each other… but he never actually asks you out.Well, that doesn’t always mean he doesn’...
17/02/2026

You two keep texting and calling each other… but he never actually asks you out.

Well, that doesn’t always mean he doesn’t like you.

Sometimes, it’s simply because he doesn’t know where to take you.

So let me show you a few ways to make him not just talk to you, but actually ask you out.

Just pick the one that fits you best!

1️⃣ SAY WHAT YOU WANT TO DO

Don’t say “Ask me out.”

You just casually say what you like doing, or what you’ve never done before.

For example:

“It’s been a while since I went to Nguyen Hue Walking Street.”

“I’ve never had sidewalk coffee near Notre Dame Cathedral.”

Or “I’ve never been to Ben Thanh night market, even though I’m from Saigon.”

When you say things like that, he’ll have an idea of where to take you in his head.

And it becomes much easier for him to ask you out.

2️⃣ DESCRIBE THE KIND OF DATE YOU LIKE

Sometimes he doesn’t ask because he’s worried…

He doesn’t know what kind of date you enjoy.

So tell him.

For example:

“I like small coffee dates where we can just sit and talk.”

“I prefer quiet places where it’s easy for us to chat, not too crowded or loud.”

“I like sitting at outdoor street cafés where it’s breezy. I’m not really into fancy restaurants.”

Whatever your style is, just say it.

That’s how he knows where to take you.

You can use this whether you just met or you’ve been together for a while.

3️⃣ SHIFT THE PLAN

If he asks you out for drinks…

But sometimes you don’t wanna sit at the same kind of place again, then don’t say “That place is boring.”

Instead, you say:

“I’ve been sitting all day. Maybe we can find somewhere to walk a little?”

Tip: Use the words “we” or “us.”

Don’t say “Take me somewhere else.”

When you say “we,” it feels like the date belongs to both of you, and it doesn’t feel like you’re rejecting his idea.

4️⃣ SAY THE PLACE DIRECTLY

If you already have somewhere in mind, tell him:

“Let’s go to Landmark 81.”

“Maybe we can check out the Metro.”

“There’s a food festival at Gia Dinh Park this weekend.”

When you say it clearly like that, he knows exactly where you wanna go and what you wanna do.

All he has left to do is ask what time works for you.

So in short…

If you want him to ask you out → tell him what you like first.

If you want the date to have the vibe you want → be clear about the place and the kind of date you enjoy.

When he knows where you wanna go and what you like doing…

It becomes much easier for him to ask.

And if you’ve tried all 4 ways and he still doesn’t ask you out…

Then it’s not that he doesn’t know how.

It’s that he doesn’t want to.

And that usually means he’s not serious about you.

Next, I’ll show you the signs that a man actually likes you.

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Anh My

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