04/11/2024
The Easter Sunday Battle of Samarra, which took place 20 years ago on April 11, 2004, holds a significant place in my life. It was a day that changed my perspective on life, including leadership, responsibility, resilience, brotherly love, and the enduring power of memory.
This event changed my view on leadership and what it truly means. Witnessing the bravery and selflessness of those during the battle, I learned that true leaders prioritize the well-being of their team above all else. They guide and protect their brothers, even in the face of extreme adversity. I learned why we “get paid the big bucks” and what it means to try and inspire rather than motivate.
The Battle of Samarra taught me about the responsibility we have towards others. In the midst of chaos and danger, it became evident that each person had a duty to support and protect their fellow soldiers. This sense of responsibility extended beyond the battlefield and into everyday life. It reminded me of the importance of looking out for one another, offering a helping hand, and being there for those in need.
The experience taught me the value of perseverance and never giving up, no matter how challenging the circumstances may be. The battle was a testament to the spirit of humanity and the strength that can be found in unity. It taught me that even in the darkest of times, there is always a glimmer of hope, and with determination, we can overcome even the most daunting obstacles.
The Battle of Samarra also revealed to me the true meaning of brotherly love. The bond formed among those who endured the traumatic incident was unbreakable. We relied on each other for support, understanding, and companionship. Through shared experiences and hardships, we developed a connection that transcended words. It showed me that true brotherhood is forged in the crucible of adversity and that the love and support of those around us can help us navigate even the most challenging situations.
Reflecting on the events of that day, it is easy to question the choices made and the paths taken. The "what ifs" and "should haves" can linger in our minds, tempting us to dwell on the past. However, I have come to realize that the memories and life lost in the Battle of Samarra should never be forgotten. They live on through the stories we tell and the memories we carry in our hearts. To honor their sacrifice, I wear two black metal bracelets engraved with the names of Nathan Brown, 4/11/2004, and Michael Uvanni, 10/01/2004, who lost their lives in Samarra. These bracelets serve as a constant reminder of the bravery and heroism displayed by those who fought alongside me.
Some may question why I choose to remember such traumatic memories. They may see it as reliving the pain. However, for those of us who have witnessed the horrors of war, we understand the importance of remembering. By keeping these memories alive, we know that the stories of our fallen brothers are never forgotten. We pay homage to their courage and sacrifice, and we strive to carry their legacy forward.
The Easter Sunday Battle of Samarra forever changed the way I perceive leadership, responsibility, resilience, brotherly love, and the power of memory. It taught me the true essence of leadership, the importance of responsibility towards others, the value of perseverance, and the depth of connection that can be formed through shared trauma. While the scars of that day may never fully heal, I choose to remember and honor those who gave their lives. For as long as we keep their stories alive, their heroism will live on.
RIP Nathan. I will never forget.