08/02/2026
In the 1800s, artist Lilly Martin Spencer rose to fame, while her husband supported her career as a stay-at-home dad to their 13 children.
Lilly Martin Spencer was raised in Marietta, Ohio by forward-thinking parents who nurtured her artistic talent, even though 19th-century society discouraged women from pursuing art professionally. After she astounded the locals with her first solo exhibition at age 19, her father moved with her to Cincinnati so she could pursue more training and opportunities.
At 22, she married Benjamin Spencer and moved to New York City. There, her career flourished.
Lilly Martin Spencer drew inspiration from her family, often using her husband and children as models. She bore 13 children, with seven surviving to adulthood. Her profession made her the primary breadwinner. Benjamin, formerly a tailor, stayed home to look after the children and help his wife manage her business.
Lilly Martin Spencer was far from the only American artist producing blissful scenes of family life, but her work challenged mainstream representations of women homemakers. Instead of relegating women to the margins, she painted them as main characters with rich inner lives. They displayed a full range of emotion, whether they were poking fun at their husbands, admiring their sleeping children, or weeping with exasperation in the kitchen.
Spencer was not only an exceptionally skilled artist but also a savvy businesswoman. She had her paintings engraved for reproduction as affordable prints, allowing her art to hang in homes across America and Europe. As a result, she became a household name throughout the 1840s and ‘50s.
While Spencer is best known for her domestic scenes, her technical skills truly shine in her still lifes. In “Raspberries,” on view in our West Building, each berry is painted with such precision that you can almost taste them.
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🖼️ Lilly Martin Spencer, "Conversation Piece," 1851–52, oil on canvas, 28 x 22 in., Maria DeWitt Jesup and Morris K. Jesup Funds, 1998, The Metropolitan Museum of Art
🖼️ Lilly Martin Spencer, "Young Wife: First Stew," 1854, oil on canvas, 30 × 24 in., Gift of Bruce and Susan Lueck, 2017, The Metropolitan Museum of Art
🖼️ Lilly Martin Spencer, "Raspberries," 1859, oil on canvas, 14 x 18 in., Gift of William and Abigail Gerdts, National Gallery of Art