10/02/2023
Hi! Ghost here.
So, I just wanted to make something VERY clear with everyone who plans to, or has, engaged with our content: please do not attack individuals for their appearence.
I know, from personal experience, that judging other based on how they dress/present themselves can lead to self doubt, salf hate, and other mental health issues that can be deadly.
Instead of attacking people for dressing in a way that you do not like, don't say anything at all, because they most likely aren't dressing for you.
I know when I dress myself, do my hair, sometimes wear makeup outside of performance, I do it for me. I want to like what I see in the mirror. I don't care if someone else hates it or hates me for it. What matters is that I'm happy with what I look like.
I went years and years HATING myself, what I looked like, who others perceived me to be. But I realized that at the end of the day, it isn't others opinions of me that matter, *my* opinion of myself matters the most, because I have to live with myself for the rest of my life.
What I'm saying is, maybe do some soul searching before hitting the send button on a comment or a post or a direct message. In all honesty, you could be saving a life.
Thanks,
Ghost xo