05/30/2026
Day 7 of Finding the Good: We read once that a marriage can’t survive if the husband and wife compete with each other. We had a whole car ride discussion about this. Dale and I have been together for almost 27 years and we compete with each other… financially, physically, mentally… we challenge each other in ways no other can bcuz we know what we’re both capable of. We also know the boundaries and limitations too though. It’s a funny thing. We’re true partners in this life and I sometimes forget to stop and appreciate that luxury. I realize not everyone has this. Today, I looked up and smiled bcuz he works just as hard to make this life for us as wonderful as I do. Please note: This is not normal (I guess) and should be approached with caution. We compete, but not in a “IN YO FACE” kinda way. We compete and still celebrate each other’s wins… which IS the other person’s “loss”, but in the end we realize we both won!! Woooo!