10/17/2026
For six years, I cared for my husband after his stroke, and I never once took a day off. I loved him, but I was drowning. Friends offered to help, but I always said, "I'm fine." One Sunday, three women from our church showed up at my door with a casserole and a schedule. "We'll stay with Harold every Thursday afternoon," said Mrs. Reynolds. "You are going to rest." I started to protest, but she held up a hand. "It's not a request, honey." That first Thursday, I didn't know what to do with myself. I sat in the car outside a coffee shop, crying. Then I walked inside, ordered tea, and read a magazine for two hours. I felt like a different person. Over time, those Thursdays became my lifeline. I got a haircut, visited a friend, and even took a nap. Harold said I seemed happier, and that made me happier still. I learned that receiving help is not weakness. It is a gift God gives us through other people. When Harold passed, those same women sat beside me at the funeral and every Thursday after. Love sometimes arrives as a casserole and a calendar. If you're a caregiver, let someone carry the load for an afternoon. Rest is part of love. Amen ππ