Hurricane Seasons

Hurricane Seasons A space to contemplate the hurricane seasons we all experience in our lives. We can weather any storm as long as we do it together...
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We can weather any storm as long as we do it together.

It’s important to have a place to rest. It’s not even a place you need to go to often, but it needs to exist nonetheless...
05/29/2026

It’s important to have a place to rest.

It’s not even a place you need to go to often, but it needs to exist nonetheless - you need to know it’s there.

In some sense, Iowa is my own personal Rivendell. Let me explain…

“Creativity is getting inspiration and having that lightning bolt idea moment, and then having the hard work ethic to si...
04/30/2026

“Creativity is getting inspiration and having that lightning bolt idea moment, and then having the hard work ethic to sit down at the desk and write it down.”

So fun to meet Emma Straub! Her last book, This Time Tomorrow, is one of my favorites of all time!
04/22/2026

So fun to meet Emma Straub! Her last book, This Time Tomorrow, is one of my favorites of all time!

The Magic City pushes you to think bigger and better thoughts about life in general. It’s not that I suddenly want to bu...
04/16/2026

The Magic City pushes you to think bigger and better thoughts about life in general.

It’s not that I suddenly want to buy a yacht or a mansion on the water, but I do want the type of future where that could one day be possible.

New York has an energy, Chicago has a vibe, and Miami has a rhythm.
04/15/2026

New York has an energy, Chicago has a vibe, and Miami has a rhythm.

So much has happened since coming here...I moved to Florida for a position that was eliminated after eight months. I scr...
04/09/2026

So much has happened since coming here...

I moved to Florida for a position that was eliminated after eight months. I scrambled to find another job and soon started working in a grocery store’s deli department.

Suddenly I was standing over a fryer making various fried foods for wealthy snowbirds from New England. It wasn’t the job I wanted but it was the job I needed in that moment: I was up early, my mind was occupied, and I was around people again.

Now I work full time for the county and no longer stare at my reflection in the oil. However, I learned so much because of how difficult it has been, so to anyone else who feels they’ve lost the plot, I say: live your life, even if you feel clumsy while doing it.

It would’ve been easy to stay in bed all day and ponder my regrets - which I did for a week back and don’t recommend at all! - but eventually I choose to take on new responsibilities instead.

Pivoting will take time and you might burn your arm once or twice because you put too many cheese curds into that damn fryer, but eventually you’ll start to rebuild.

I know you can because that’s what I’m doing right now.

Before my flight, we stopped by two vintage stores and I purchased these little copper leaves for a future necklace. I o...
04/06/2026

Before my flight, we stopped by two vintage stores and I purchased these little copper leaves for a future necklace. I once told one of my siblings that my soul’s full of leaves and I still think that’s an accurate statement. I may dwell by the sea, but my heart’s still anchored to the Midwest and its many seasons.

I’m getting older now because every trip back here is about collecting memories. I descend to the ground with an empty jar and ascend into the sky with that same jar full to the brim with joy and happiness. It’s encouraging, yes, but it also leaves me feeling slightly wistful.

You know towards the end of To Kill A Mockingbird when Scout is thinking back on everything her neighbors gave to her and Jem? That’s how I feel now: so much given, so much received.

“I was to think of these days many times.”

Life in Sarasota is good because of the friends I’ve made along the way.Take Kendalle and Nicholas: two empaths with a c...
04/03/2026

Life in Sarasota is good because of the friends I’ve made along the way.

Take Kendalle and Nicholas: two empaths with a cavernous capacity for warmth and generosity. I mean, hello, they offered to help me move apartments and didn’t so much as bat an eye when I suggested starting at seven in the morning!

I’ve always tried my best to be a good friend but I’ve been more intentional this year. From phone calls to texts to postcards to flowers: it all adds up to something relationally substantive and socially binding.

When you demonstrate love for the people in your orbit, life becomes richer, deeper, better. I think loving people the way they need to be loved is so satisfying because you know it makes them feel seen and known in a specific way.

That’s what I’ve tried to do here in Sarasota: love the ones in front of me in ways that make them feel acknowledged.

"When we first learned that we were having twins, we were so excited. There were no twins on either side of our families...
04/01/2026

"When we first learned that we were having twins, we were so excited. There were no twins on either side of our families, and I somehow knew it would be a boy and a girl.

I had very clear dreams of how our lives would be: I could see a little boy and girl holding hands and walking down a sidewalk with the sun shining down upon them.

Even now, I can remember that dream."

I grew up surrounded by drug addicts and alcoholics.All throughout my childhood, my father worked for a drug rehabilitat...
04/01/2026

I grew up surrounded by drug addicts and alcoholics.

All throughout my childhood, my father worked for a drug rehabilitation program in Colfax, Iowa. The program purchased a building in the northeast corner of the city, and it was/is a little kingdom set apart. I still recall all those summers spent wading in the creek, and all those winters skating atop it.

Whenever I come across people in the throes of addiction, I think back to my childhood because I interacted with recovery addicts on a daily basis. I still remember many of their names, and wonder where they live and what sort of life they’ve built.

Sarasota has a large population of homeless individuals, and I see them wandering around from my office window. Once my boss joined me at the window and as we watched a large group walk away from the bus stop, she sighed and said, “There but for the grace of God.”

There’s such a thin line running between the outcomes of our lives: some weathered storms and came out the other side better and kinder, but others were unable to pass through it all unscathed. I was given a front-row seat to the ramifications of peoples’ choices, and I paid attention to what I saw.

There but for the grace of God, indeed.

03/30/2026

When I started this space, one reason was to highlight individuals who have weathered storms and came out the other side a different person.

Many years ago, my parents lost a son to complications from cerebral palsy. While mom’s shared about those days on her own site, I wanted to ask her questions here, as well.

I’m so happy she’s the first person I’ll be speaking with about her “hurricane season.”

Coming soon!

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