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Reddit AITA, Academy Avenue, Sanger, CA (2026)

05/12/2026

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05/12/2026

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AITA for bringing up my sister’s divorce during an argument?

My(21f) bf, Ty(22m) is very skinny. he gets shamed for not being muscular, and I can see how much it affect him. He’s always trying so hard to make himself look ‘better’ cause people would always comment on how ‘he can’t protect me from danger looking like that’. This is bs IMO. I love him more than anything in this world, and I love him for himself. I don’t need him to fight for me or whatever s__t.

My oldest sister, Nia(29f), loves skinny shaming him. She does this all the time when she meets us. For example, “omg Ty, you look skinnier than the last time I saw you”, “Eat Ty nobody is going to steal your food”. I know it hurts him, but he doesn’t stand up for himself because she’s my sister. He doesn’t want to break our bond or look rude in front of my family.

I’ve told her so many time in private not to make comments like this because she’s ruining his self-esteem and he’s handsome and perfect for me. I didn’t stop her in front of him because I didn’t want him thinking that he’s weak or anything. But Nia would always laugh if it off as a joke.

Yesterday she made a similar comment about his weight during dinner, and I snapped. I called her b__ch and told her that I finally understood why her husband left her because she’s a bully and a f__king trash. Nia was in tears after hearing my comments and called me an a__hole for bringing up her divorce because I knew how much it broke her heart. I feel bad for my sister’s divorce, but I can’t just let her bully my bf. Ty said maybe I went a bit over with my insults, but he’s very grateful because I stood up for him.

AITA here?

05/12/2026

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AITA for continuing a relationship with my ex husband's kids?

When I met my now ex, he had 2 kids. Twins, a boy and a girl. They were about 6 when I married their father. Their mother was never really involved in their life. I played the role as their mom. I taught his daughter about her body, I taught my son anything I knew about being a male. We both formed a great bond. The 3 of us shared similar tastes in nearly everything. Fast forward to last year. Me and my husband got divorced due to him having an affair with his current fiancé.

It hurt pretty badly, I loved him, I loved his kids and I didn't want to loose that. The twins are now 22 and they have been checking up on me for a while. They visited me for the first time in a while a few weeks ago. I really enjoyed seeing them again. I thought it would be fine to keep talking with them. I got a phone call soon after, it was their father. He asked why the kids were at my house and I told him they wanted to visit me.

He said we are no longer married and I'm blocking them from a relationship from their new step mother. I said its their choice if they want to continue a relationship with me and he got mad and hung up on me. Am I the ass for keeping a relationship?

Edit- due to health problems I'm unable to have children biologically. It means a lot to have these kids view me as their mother. I'm super grateful they are in my life. I'm super grateful I was able to have the experience of raising children, along with the bond of having them. I've went through something similar as a child. I had to cut contact with my step siblings after my step dad and mom divorced. I don't want history to repeat itself.

05/11/2026

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AITA for spending my money on voting tickets instead of helping my boyfriend with his child support?

Hi, I am a 29 year old female. My boyfriend 33M, let's call him Chris, had asked me to give him 10 000 pesos (199 USD) because he's fallen short on his child support. This is not the first time it happened.

2 months ago I loaned him 15k that he hasn't paid yet. I told him I can't give the entire amount but I have 3k spare money. He thanked me for my help and promised to pay me back once he gets his finances sorted.

Today Chris found out from a friend that I spent more than 15k on voting tickets for a popularity poll. I am a diehard fan of this Korean Actor and I really wanted him to win the award. So I bought tickets, made multiple accounts and encouraged fellow fans to vote.

Chris messaged me, expressing his disappointment. He said he never expected me to be a shallow person who would spend so much money on someone who doesn't even know me. Chris shared this to our friends in Facebook chat and they all sided with him.

So, AITA? Was it wrong to spend money on someone I admire?

05/11/2026

A23238

05/11/2026

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AITA for telling my brother that my parents are kicking him out of the house?

Hey Reddit! Had a story I wanted to share that happened this year, and I figured this would be the perfect place to share it. So first, a little backstory: My brother (23) has been living in our childhood home with his girlfriend for a few years. My parents moved out of the house years ago, and my brother and his girlfriend has been paying rent ever since, as the only two people in the house. There’s no contract, it was just a family agreement. They agreed to let my brother and his girlfriend live in the house for five years, and at the time of this happening, it had only been two. Throughout the years, my parents would force my brother and his girlfriend to pay to fix up different parts of the house as a ‘part of living there’ situation, and would have the neighbors spy on them to report back on anything my parents wouldn’t approve of.

Last year around Winter, my parents asked me to come over to discuss something. When I arrived, they told me that they were planning on kicking my brother out of the house the following Spring, and asked me to help them break the news to him when the time came. I followed up by asking them when they were planning on telling him, and they said they would tell him in Spring, just before kicking him out. They asked me not to mention it to him.

So at that point, I was faced with a dilemma. I could either ruin my relationship with my parents by telling him as soon as possible, so that he would have time to prepare for the move, or I could wait to tell him, and potentially ruin the relationship with my brother that I’ve been building over the last few years if he ever found out that I knew earlier than I said.

I ended up doing what I felt was the right thing, which was going over to his house instantly and telling them both that my parents were planning...

05/11/2026

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AITA for basically calling my daughters teacher inept during a PTC meeting?

I'm personally having a tough one with this because I usually am very understanding, especially with everything going on in today's world; so I'm not sure if I took things too far.

My daughter is in 1st grade. Obviously last year she only had 4 months of Kindergarten before everything was shut down and the school system didnt offer any sort of remote learning after its closure. I tried my best to make up for her lack of schooling. Purchased loads of work books, bought subscriptions for things like Prodigy and ABCMouse, etc. By the end of the "school year" she was in a pretty good standing, considering both myself and her father work full time.

Anyways, this year starts up and low and behold they arent taking the kids education seriously, at all. We had a meeting 2 weeks before start-up saying that as a precaution, the kids would only have 2 days of schooling and the rest would be remote. No problem. I rearranged my work schedule to accommodate. But by the time school started, it was issue after issue. My daughter comes home with nothing but tracing homework (like, tracing her hand, every f__king week), has yet to get passwords/websites/or the promised laptop for virtual learning. Everything I taught her last year has gone out the window. Theres no reading or writing or math. It's basically just arts and crafts. Shes falling behind. My daughter comes home telling me that basically they just play all day. To top it off? Out of the 7 weeks that they have been in school (which, with 2 days a week she should have had 14 days at school) they have only been to school 5 days. Why? Because the school keeps saying "its teacher workshop day, no school" or "its cleaning day, no school". Mind you, the school is ONLY open for students Monday and Tuesday so they have literally the rest of the week because the teachers ARE at school until Friday.

So, we had a PTC meeting yesterday with her teacher and the super intendent...

05/11/2026

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AITA for telling my ex to get over herself and s**u after she got mad at my son for not being in the room for his wife’s labor?

When my wife got pregnant I dumped her because she admitted to baby trapping me. We’ve had split custody of our son from the day he was born to the day he turned 18 when he then stayed with me full time as if his choice.

In 2017 my son married his high school sweet heart and about 4 months ago they decided to have a child. She recently decided that she wanted her mom in the room during her labor and everyone was perfectly fine with this except for my ex wife. She claimed that he as the father of this child needs to be “more realistic” and “be there for his wife during her time of need.”

We all just told her to stop cause she didn’t get to make that choice. He was fine with it and it’s what his wife wanted so my ex should not get an opinion on that matter. Well this went on for about 2 weeks and yesterday I’d had enough. We were all over there discussing a gender reveal, (nothing big they were just gonna have a friend make a cake. It would just be family) she brought up the “issue” with the delivery room and I got really annoyed.

I told her that she needed to shut the f__k up and get over herself because it wasn’t her child and she didn’t get to make that choice. She got really upset and started wailing so my son kicked her out. We went back to what we were doing and my daughter in law actually thanked me for saying something but I can’t help but feel like I was too harsh. Am I in the wrong here?

05/11/2026

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AITA for snitching on my mom after she fu**ed up my brother's laptop?

Yesterday afternoon my brother (M19) went out to bike around the city and my mom (F46) decided to, what she calls, "hack" his computer. I (M16) didn't know this until she barged in my room crying with a laptop on her hands. She explained the whole situation and I was thinking like "well i know she lies all the time and that she is super nosey, which means she probably looked at my whole family's rooms before" so i decided to not help and let her deal with the consequences. 15 minutes later she offered me money so I could help her, and I decided to lock myself in my room and ignore all her calls for help. I was super angry, she is an adult and she was acting like a child trying to create crazy scenarios to hide her s__t. When my brother got home I told him everything.

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05/11/2026

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AITA for getting mad when my husband messes with my OCD on purpose?

Throwaway account; he uses reddit too.

Background:My husband and I are both 27 and have been married for almost 3 years, no kids.

I have suffered with OCD for the majority of my life. I was officially diagnosed when I was 23 and finally got medication. The medication has greatly reduced my panic attacks, but it has also made me tired all the time.

My husband finds some of my OCD tics fascinating, which I don't blame him for, because I can see why he thinks that. I have talked to him about all my weirdest ones: the fact that I can't have my hands in the same position at the same time, the fact that I can't touch the mole on my neck or else I have compulsions to squeeze the skin, etc. (There are many more but those are most relevant.)

Sometimes, my husband induces my OCD to mess with me. Like if he's holding my hands and forces them into the same position to see how I'll react. I've talked to him about it and hes since stopped doing that.

Today, he playfully touched the mole on the back of my neck. I was like "we talked about this; why do you trigger my OCD on purpose?"

He went on about how I need to overcome this anxiety and he was helping with my exposure to it. I told him he's not a licensed therapist and he's just stressing me out. I've gone to therapy. I see a psychiatrist frequently. I let the professionals handle that.

I was crying about how I feel he's disrespectful of my OCD by trying to induce those feeling's on purpose. He said that he's bothered that I'm giving in to irrational fears.

Now I'm crying and trying to remove myself from the situation but he's keeps telling me it's just a mole and I need to act like people treat it in the real world. I KNOW that logically; I try to explain to him that OCD is illogical which is why I...

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