Dr. Ruth Akumbu

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10/28/2026

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐬 𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐖𝐞 𝐏𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐁𝐞𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐏𝐚𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐕𝐞𝐫𝐝𝐢𝐜𝐭?
The goal is not fewer judgments. It's better ones.
Leaders make judgments all day. Most are necessary.

This work doesn't ask you to assume the best about everyone, or to doubt yourself.

It asks one thing: don't confuse an unchecked interpretation with a fact, especially when your conclusion affects someone else's work.
Catch the moment you added meaning.

Check what else it could mean, and what one question would clear it up. Change your response when better information gives you a reason to, and hold the line when it doesn't.

One caution. A framework can become its own kind of certainty. It offers possibilities to investigate, not conclusions about people.
Interpretation is inevitable. Verdict is optional.

Where would one pause have changed an outcome on your team?

10/27/2026

What do you do when all you have is fifty-four dollars and a prayer?

That question sits at the heart of Borrowing Faith, my new book coming soon. It’s the story of the moments when I had to lean on a faith bigger than my own to keep going.

The ebook is now open for preorder. If you’d rather listen, the original recording of the book is available, too.

If you’ve ever had to keep moving before you could see the way forward, this book is for you.

Preorder or listen using the link below 👇🏿

10/27/2026

𝐖𝐡𝐲 𝐃𝐨 𝐆𝐨𝐨𝐝 𝐏𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐒𝐭𝐨𝐩 𝐒𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐔𝐩?
Nobody told them to stop speaking up. They ran the experiment and read the results.

An idea gets a nod, then nothing. Three times. A month later, someone more senior says the same idea and it lands.

Two experiences like that are enough. They haven't stopped having questions. They've learned that asking costs more than not knowing.

Then a new leader arrives, sees someone who doesn't contribute, and reasonably concludes they're disengaged.

What looks like a trait is often the result of a loop.

Ask: were they always this quiet, or did something change? When? There's usually a date.

What happened the last time someone on your team disagreed in a meeting?

10/26/2026

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐃𝐨𝐞𝐬 𝐚 𝐒𝐦𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐌𝐢𝐬𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐝 𝐂𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐚 𝐓𝐞𝐚𝐦?
A team can lose its early warning system without missing a single deadline.

One comment in a group thread lands as a public correction. The person quietly decides to run their next idea past someone privately first.

Nobody calls it an incident.

The first things to disappear are informal: the half-formed question, the early warning, the “this might be nothing, but.” That's where problems get caught cheaply.

Then it spreads. Extra reviewers on approvals. More people copied on emails.

Decisions passing through three people because nobody wants to hold them. A manager spending hours every month mediating tension.

By the time it reaches leadership, it looks like a resourcing problem or two people who can't work together. The trail back to the original misread is gone.

A question asked the same afternoon is a question. Four months later, it's a confrontation.

If your team is paying for friction nobody can trace, message me TEAM.

10/25/2026

𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐃𝐨𝐞𝐬 𝐚 𝐏𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐂𝐥𝐚𝐬𝐡 𝐁𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐒𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐑𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐜𝐢𝐧𝐠?
“Can we talk about the report?” From one person, it's a scheduling note. From another, your stomach drops.

Nothing in the message changed. The history you're holding did.
She expects criticism, so she keeps it short. He reads that as cold and gets sharper.

Now she has proof he's hostile. He has proof she's difficult.
Six months later, both will say they've tried everything. Both will have evidence.

A personality clash doesn't need bad intent. It just needs two people reacting to each other's defenses.

Acknowledge the history out loud: “We've had a rough stretch, and I think we've both been reading each other badly.” Then judge today on today's evidence.

Think of the longest-running friction on your team. Could each person show you their evidence?

10/24/2026

𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐃𝐨 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐑𝐞𝐩𝐚𝐢𝐫 𝐒𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐀𝐟𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐇𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐌𝐢𝐬𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐝 𝐒𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐨𝐧𝐞?
“I think we got our wires crossed” isn't an apology. It's a weather report.

You misread someone. You treated them differently because of it. Now you know you were wrong.

Step one: say the verdict you reached. “I decided you weren't taking the deadline seriously.”

Step two: say what you did because of it. You reassigned the work. You stopped copying them in.

Step three: listen, without correcting the parts that feel unfair.

Watch the word “but.” “I should have asked first, but I was under pressure” asks them to reassure you.

Vague apologies protect the person apologizing. Specific ones repair the relationship.

Expect things to stay careful for a while. One apology is one data point. Trust returns through small, visible, repeated behavior.

Which is harder to say: what you decided about someone, or what you did because of it?

10/23/2026

𝐃𝐀𝐘 𝟑 𝐈𝐒 𝐓𝐎𝐌𝐎𝐑𝐑𝐎𝐖, 𝐒𝐀𝐓𝐔𝐑𝐃𝐀𝐘!
What happens when you realize you may have misunderstood someone’s intention?

Join us for Day 3 of the Connection Catalyst Challenge.

🕗 8 AM Pacific Time
Come ready to Catch. Check. Change.

10/23/2026

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐇𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐬 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐌𝐞𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐀𝐟𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐌𝐞𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠?
If the real conversation happens in the hallway, look at the meeting.

A department head says almost nothing in a 40-minute planning meeting. That evening, she sends three paragraphs flagging two risks nobody raised.

Withholding? Or someone whose best thinking arrives after the room stops moving?

Side conversations are information. Some people need processing time. Some don't believe disagreement is welcome.

And a director saying “I'm not sure about this” isn't taking the same risk as a new analyst saying it.

When only the people who can afford to disagree do, the meeting produces filtered information.

Swap “Does everyone agree?” for “What concerns do we still have?” Then wait.

A meeting where everyone nods, followed by a project that stalls six weeks later, didn't produce alignment. It produced the appearance of it.

What does your meeting make hard to say?

10/22/2026

What if the real problem isn’t the conversation; but the way you’re interpreting it?

The October Connection Catalyst Challenge continues tomorrow at 𝟖 𝐀𝐌 𝐏𝐚𝐜𝐢𝐟𝐢𝐜 𝐓𝐢𝐦𝐞.

Don’t miss the next session. Come ready to learn, reflect, and build practical skills for healthier, clearer communication.

REGISTER NOW, LINK IN BIO! I’ll see you there!

10/22/2026

𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐏𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐧, 𝐍𝐨𝐭 𝐉𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐄𝐱𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐧𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧
A great conversation can explain a conflict perfectly and change nothing.

Two colleagues sit down, figure out exactly how the misunderstanding started, and leave in agreement.

Two weeks later, they're back in the same loop.

The conversation wasn't wrong. It just wasn't the change.
Insight explains the pattern. Behavior changes the pattern.

“Communicate better” can't be done on Tuesday. “I'll bring you the draft before the group sees it” can.

Expect the first improvement to be treated as a fluke. Somewhere between the third and sixth repetition, expectations start to shift.

What's one specific behavior that would change a pattern you're in right now?

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