09/03/2026
⭐️ FIVE-STAR BEHAVIOR ⭐️
If you’re my age or older, you probably remember getting a gold star at school. ⭐️
A gold star meant you made a good choice, did a great job, got a good grade, or simply did something worth recognizing.
And honestly… I kind of love that this trend brings that feeling back.
Because as adults, we don’t get many gold stars anymore.
So I started thinking…
What are the things people do that deserve a gold star? ⭐️
Not the big, flashy things.
The little things.
The things that cost something.
The things other people might not understand.
The things that make you think, “Yep… those are my people.”
Here are mine…
⭐️ THE SMALL ONE
I remember the little things people tell me.
Not because I’m trying to impress anyone. I just genuinely care. The project you’re working on. Your grandbaby’s name. Something you were excited about. Something you were struggling with.
Because I think remembering says, “You mattered enough for me to remember.” ❤️
⭐️ THE ONE THAT COSTS
I choose kindness when I could choose to be offended.
And whew… sometimes that costs me.
It means biting my tongue. Giving someone the benefit of the doubt. Choosing not to match someone’s energy. Walking away from drama instead of feeding it.
Because I’ve learned that sometimes peace is more valuable than being right.
⭐️ THE UNPOPULAR ONE
I don’t believe everything needs to be shared.
Not every disagreement needs an audience.
Not every hurt needs a post.
Not every opinion needs to be defended.
My integrity matters more to me than winning a public argument.
⭐️ THE ONE THAT SORTS
I believe you can love people without competing with them.
Your success doesn’t threaten mine.
Your beautiful finish doesn’t make mine less beautiful.
Your new start doesn’t mean I need one.
Your gifts don’t diminish mine.
There is room at the stitching table for all of us. 💕😉🫶🏻❤️
Maybe that’s what I love most about this trend.
We may be grown women now, but every once in a while…
We still deserve a gold star for making good choices. ⭐️
What gets a gold star from you?
Tell me one thing someone does that makes you think, “Yep… those are my people.” 👇🏻