10/24/2026
A crazy few days, and we are bringing our warrior home today with pain medication in hand.
We left Thursday at 3:30am to avoid a hotel stay. That three-hour drive to Mayo is a gift because we are so close, but when Crystal is in pain, it feels so much longer.
We were surprised when they decided to admit her, but after 22 days of pain, Crystal was relieved. Gage and I got her settled in and headed home, returning the next day to be here for the weekend. As hard as it was to leave her there, knowing she was in such good hands made it a little easier. Crystal felt safe and was treated like royalty by every nurse and doctor who walked into her room. The kindness, compassion, and genuine care they showed her meant more to us than they will ever know. When you’re a mom, leaving your child behind is never easy, but knowing she was cared for so beautifully gave us a little peace.
With all your prayers, messages, stories, and positive vibes, we have had some good news. Her scans and bloodwork are still looking the same as a month ago. The slight fever and excruciating pain are still there, but thankfully, pain medication is helping her sleep.
The pain is severe and nerve-related, possibly caused by chemo. Will it ever go away? We just don’t know yet. One possibility they are considering is shingles without a rash. Crystal had chickenpox when she was younger, and ironically, most of hers were internal. If that’s what this turns out to be, I think it’s a sign that I need to finally get the shingles vaccine my mom has been encouraging me to get for years.
And to all of you… ❤️
As a mom, I don’t know how to thank you for 13 years of kindness, prayers, and love. You show up when I feel lost, exhausted, and unsure of what comes next. Somehow, your words and support remind me that we aren’t walking this road alone.
From the bottom of my heart, thank you for continuing to show up for our Crystal and our family. We feel every bit of that love.