08/31/2026
Growth doesn’t always feel like becoming.
Sometimes it feels like losing. Sometimes growth feels like standing between who you used to be and who you’re becoming—and not quite recognizing either place as home.
That space can be uncomfortable.
You may question yourself.
You may miss what was familiar, even when you know it was no longer right for you.
You may wonder why something that is supposed to be good feels so difficult.
But growth has always required a little stretching.
A seed has to break open before it can become anything more.
A tree has to release old leaves before new ones can grow.
And sometimes we have to loosen our grip on what we’ve known before we have room to receive what comes next.
Maybe that’s what is happening in your life right now.
Perhaps the discomfort isn’t telling you to turn around.
Perhaps it’s telling you that you no longer fit inside some of the places you once did.
The conversations that once interested you feel different.
The things you once tolerated no longer feel acceptable. You’re choosing peace over approval.
You’re becoming more intentional about where you spend your time, who receives your energy, and what you allow into your heart.
And sometimes that growth feels lonely.
Because not everyone will understand the person you’re becoming.
Some people only knew how to love the version of you who never said no.
The version who always accommodated. But you are allowed to outgrow that version of yourself.
You are allowed to change.
You are allowed to choose a life that feels more aligned with the person God is shaping you to become.
Growth doesn’t mean rejecting everything you once were. But you don’t have to remain who you were simply because that version of you is familiar.
Sometimes the next chapter requires more room. Pause and ask yourself:
“Am I falling apart… or am I outgrowing something?”
Because the two can feel surprisingly similar while you’re living through them.
One day, you may look back and realize that the discomfort wasn’t life taking something from you.
It was life making room. 🤍
See you tomorrow for Day 29.