07/15/2026
Disability Pride Month, hey. 🌈
This book, Demystifying Disability, by Emily Ladau Emily Ladau | Demystifying Disability is a banger and it’s one of those makes-the-world-better type books (IMHO).
Here are some takeaways from my readings and experience:
* Do not assume people don’t want their disability.
* Do not assume an individual with a physical disability needs or wants your help in public spaces. Always ask first. (This is a takeaway from the author who has firsthand perspective on this).
* How people choose to identify, whether through person-first language or identity-first language is their prerogative. I remember being taught in college (so it’s outdated!) that person-first language was the “right” way, but thinking that is the only way reduces autonomy of the person. We don’t speak for each other but we can speak up for each other. I am autistic and I have non-apparent disabilities.
* Don’t infantilize disabled adults. Speak to them in the same tone you would any adult.
* In the medical model of disability, there is a general implication: seek to fix the person…
* The social model of disability seeks to serve the person’s needs, to fix society and improve accessibility for all humans. Why wouldn’t we all want that?
* Human worth is not dependent on functioning status, but our capitalistic society has implanted cut-throat unkindness and privilege blinders. The U.S. demands high function or casts aside or forces an unjust fight for one’s needs and rights. Anyone can become disabled at any moment. I am fortunate and I do not need to seek disability funding, but I’ve learned they make it H-E 🏒🏒 to acquire for those who truly need it.
I believe we are here to help each other thrive and that cannot happen with a supremacy mindset, nor while this sadministration promotes ableism and cuts funds/programs for those with highest needs.
I am not a medical professional. Views are mine, informed by books and experience. Happy Disability Pride month. 🫶
📚 The rest are some summer reads I’ve liked for the kids. ➡️
This is How We Talk by Caroline Cupp and Jessica Slice.
Talking is Not My Thing by