10/14/2026
My fiancΓ© and I got engaged at twenty-four, and we were thrilled. We were also drowning in student loans, over sixty thousand dollars between us. We decided to postpone the wedding until we had paid off most of it. Our families thought we were being too cautious. Friends got married and had babies while we sat at our kitchen table making payment plans. Some days the waiting felt unbearable. We prayed together nightly, asking for patience. Four years went by. We lived frugally, cooked at home, and kept our engagement rings simple. On the day we made our final student loan payment, we cried and hugged in the bank parking lot. Two months later, we were married in our church garden, surrounded by friends and family, with a cake baked by his mother and flowers picked by mine. We had no debt and no regrets. Our first year of marriage was peaceful and free. Many couples face stress over money in the early years. We had already faced ours, together, before the wedding. The long engagement taught us teamwork and trust. If your timeline is delayed, don't be discouraged. God often uses the waiting to build foundations strong enough to hold a lifetime. Amen ππ