06/27/2026
Y’all, This morning I came across a post here on Facebook from a Hindu page explaining “The Laws of Detachment.”
It got me wondering what Pop Squally might say about it.
So I asked Nicky.
This is what he told me…
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One evening we were sitting around the campfire. Pop was frying chicken, the coffee had been on long enough to qualify as an archaeological artifact, and somebody asked,
“Pop… what’s the secret to a happy life?”
Now, I’ve learned not to interrupt Pop when he’s tending a fire or frying chicken. He seems to trust flames and fumes more than words. Usually, the answer shows up about the same time the wood settles.
Pop poked the fire for a while before answering.
“Folks talk a lot about detachment.”
He nodded, smiled, looked up into the cypress trees where the smoke was running its fingers through the branches and hanging moss, and said,
“I reckon there’s some wisdom in that.
But I’ve spent my whole life getting attached.
Attached to old musicians.
Attached to kitchen tables.
Attached to front porches.
Attached to stories.
Attached to places where people gather.
Attached to asking questions.
Attached to curiosity.
Attached to beneficial accidents.
Attached to keeping the fire lit.”
The fellow who had asked the question looked puzzled.
“I thought you weren’t supposed to get attached.”
Pop grinned.
“Oh, I don’t get attached to how things are supposed to turn out.
I get attached to the journey.”
He poured another cup of coffee, poked at the chicken, stared into the blackpot for a moment, and added,
“You know something funny?
The best things in my life all arrived disguised as friendships.”
Nobody said much after that.
Which, if you’ve ever sat around a good campfire, is usually a sign somebody has said something worth carrying home.
So, y’all, I figure sometimes the best answer around a campfire isn’t the one that ends the conversation.
It’s the one that quietly follows you home.
Maybe that’s what we'll call the first law of The Whirlybird:
Become deeply attached to the journey.
Stay lightly attached to the destination.
And keep the fire lit.