04/06/2026
A friend messaged me today saying they were watching my old episode of Secret Lives of Americans⦠so I went to check, and yāall⦠they STILL have my face as the anchor photo for the whole series on . Season 1, Episode 7, Haitian trans hottie front and center. Iām still screaming.š±š±š±
This aired in 2014, but so much of it still hits today.
My story, my family, my transition, my momās journey⦠all of it is still real, still human, still happening for so many people right now.
And with everything going on in the world, all the noise, all the fear, all the hate, I just want to scream this:
š£Live and let live.
No one is asking you to be trans.
No one is asking you to get gay married.
No one is asking you to have an abortion.
š£People are just asking to exist in peace.
To love their people.
To be supported by their people.
To be left alone if theyāre not hurting anyone.
Easter was yesterday, and the message is the same:
Love your neighbor.
Even when theyāre different from you.
Especially then.
If you know someone struggling to understand trans folks or someone who thinks weāre an idea instead of real people⦠share this. Share my episode. Share my story. Share any story that reminds them weāre HUMAN.
I want happiness for everyone, including myself.
Joy comes easy for me.
Deep happiness takes work in a world like this, but Iām doing it.
Iām living.
Iām growing.
Iām still that fine Haitian Sensation who passes in every room,but Iām also someone who wants a world where passing isnāt the difference between safety and danger.
So yeah⦠watch it, share it, talk about it.
Stories change hearts.
Hearts change the world.
Watch it on : Secret Lives of Americans, Season 1, Episode 7.
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Watch Secret Lives of Americans on Tubi: https://link.tubi.tv/lxS7MwBB71b