02/22/2022
there is no right way to be an artist in the online space.
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if it feels good to you, do it, and f**k the rest.
i find it ironic when people say “just be yourself!” and then spend so much time creating & obsessing over what they think other people want to hear and see.
i speak out so boldly on this subject because i’ve spent my whole life being told I couldn’t trust my own opinions, intuition, and doing what I wanted to do.
as a result, I did a lot of things that I thought would make people more interested in what I did…⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
…that I thought would make people love me more.
…that I thought would make me feel more accepted in my professional and social circles.
not only did it not make me happy, it didn’t do or bring me any of the things i thought it would give me by doing them. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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it was only when i started to do ME, as the kids say, meaning…
listening to my own intuition…
doing the things i loved to do…
showing up to spaces and places the way i wanted to — online and offline, in my professional and personal life…
that people responded with excitement to what I created and put out there. i attracted more of what i wanted out of life, both as a person and an artist. ⠀
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life feels clearer when i trust myself and do what i want in it. (funny how that works.)⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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so maybe it’s just me (and maybe it’s you, too), but we could all do ourselves and others better by listening to the voices in our head instead. 😉