04/17/2026
I (M) had been with my GF (K) for years. We both had baggage; she cheated in the past, I was cheated on. She confessed feelings for "D," a close friend. I was ok with crushes, but demanded boundaries. She then declared she MIGHT be polyamorous, blaming her past cheating! I, a staunch monogamist, refused an ๐ open relationship. She raged, calling me closed-minded and selfish, demanding "Why should our relationship be monogamous to suit YOU?" I caved, setting rules: total honesty, limits, veto power. She agreed, then IMMEDIATELY tried to break the ๐ป ๐ rules after spending the day with him! I used my veto, closing the relationship. "She exploded, asking 'Why do YOU think you have the right to do that?'". The ๐ fight escalated. I told her to leave if polyamory was more important... [Read Full Story & Verdict] โฌ๏ธ