04/08/2026
An issue very near and dear to my heart. Please read.
What are the two phrases we hear most in rescue?
“I want them to go to a good home.”
“I don’t want them going to a kill shelter because they might be euthanized.”
These words come from a place of love. We hear the worry, the compassion, the hope that there’s a safe answer for every cat and every kitten.
When we ask, “What is your solution?” it’s not meant to sound harsh. It comes from a place of heartbreak and reality, because we are the ones holding these animals, trying to make impossible choices, wishing there were more space, more homes, more resources. 💔
There isn’t a magical place where all of them can go. There isn’t a backup plan waiting somewhere. Right now, there are tens of millions of homeless cats 😿 in this country, and shelters and rescues are already doing everything they possibly can. So the only way forward… is together.
If we don’t want cats and kittens to suffer, we have to prevent the litters before they happen. That means spaying and neutering the cats we feed and care for.
It means acting early—before there’s another pregnancy.
It means making room when we can, helping when we’re able, and supporting efforts like TNR.
And sometimes, it means facing incredibly difficult decisions with compassion and responsibility.
None of this is easy. None of it feels good. But it is what truly protects them.
This isn’t about blame. It’s about understanding the weight of the situation and realizing that every one of us who cares is part of the solution.
If you need help, please reach out. Rescues want to help. But if they are full, it’s not because they don’t care. It’s because they’re already stretched beyond capacity. Your litter isn’t the only litter. That doesn’t make it less important, but it does mean we have to think bigger, act sooner, and work together.
Because the good news—the hopeful, powerful truth—is this:
‼️Unwanted litters are 100% preventable‼️
Spay and neuter is the only way to stop the cycle before it starts. It is the most humane choice we have.
If you have other ideas, we are always open to hearing them. But until then, this is how we save them, before they ever have to be saved. 😻