06/20/2026
y friend David didn't say much when I called him.
I wasn't even making sense. I was in a bad place β truly bad β and I called him because I'd run out of other options. Not because I expected anything. Just because I needed to hear a voice I trusted.
He asked me one question: "Are you safe right now?"
I said yes. Barely, but yes.
He said: "Stay on the phone with me."
I heard him moving around. Keys. A door.
"Where are you going?" I asked.
"To my car," he said.
He drove four hours that night. Arrived at 2 AM. He knocked on my door and stood there with a paper bag β coffee, two sandwiches, a ridiculous amount of chips.
He didn't ask me to explain myself. He didn't give me a speech. He came in, sat on the floor with me, and we ate chips and watched bad TV until I fell asleep.
In the morning he made coffee and sat with me while I started to talk.
I've never properly thanked him. I've tried and the words don't come out right. "Thank you" feels too small for someone who got in their car at 10 PM because their friend's voice didn't sound right.
He told me once, years later, that he drove that night because he kept thinking: what if no one goes?
What if no one goes.
π Be the person who goes. Share this if you have someone in your life who would drive four hours for you β and tell them.