08/28/2026
Great article for young men and their parents who are venturing into the world of ballet! I love the conversation to normalize this for boys because we normalize a bra under a costume if needed for girls, and we do the same for boys! It’s already normalized in sports with protective gear and even tights in football, so let’s do this for dance!
A dance belt shouldn’t be something we need to whisper about. Nor should it be an optional extra.
Boys deserve the same consideration for their privacy and comfort in costume as girls do.
If your son does ballet, a proper support belt really is an essential piece of dancewear.
Its job is simple- to give support, keep everything securely in place during movement, and create a smoother line under tights and fitted costumes. Ordinary underwear absolutely does not do the same job.
Without one, the centre seam of ballet tights can sit very prominently and draw unnecessary attention to the body underneath. In close fitting dancewear, that can become very obvious -and those costumes are often photographed, filmed and shared.
My own view is that boys should be introduced to a support belt from around eight years old. Not because eight is some magic number, but because this is often the age when ballet starts becoming a little more serious: proper costumes, more challenging solos, more allegro, more jumping and generally much more movement. With that comes a greater need for proper support.
And certainly, if a boy is performing in a fitted costume, a support belt should be part of the costume underneath it.
Yes, they can feel uncomfortable at first. Younger boys can wear a full-seat version, which can be a much easier introduction. As they get older, the thong-style version is usually more appropriate under fitted ballet tights because it gives the support needed without visible underwear lines.
The earlier it becomes normal, the better. If it is introduced simply as part of their ballet kit, most boys accept it without much fuss. Boys I’ve taught in the past have been absolutely fine with wearing one when it has been approached in a straightforward, matter-of-fact way, rather than made into something awkward or embarrassing.
We are very used to thinking carefully about girls underwear under costumes. Boys deserve exactly the same care and consideration.