11/30/2022
Today we talked about self-worth. We talked about how people can place different values on the same ideas. We talked about how to decide what our individual value is, as well as what our personal worth is based on. This video clip came at the end of the session. If you knew how long I have been waiting for this kiddo to stand up and do his thing, you would understand why this is so special. This moment has been over a year in the making, and today was the day Aiden finally chose to speak up. Here are just a few seconds of his lengthy monologue to the group….
I’ve always spoken of Aiden as the protector, as being full of the kind of wisdom you don’t often see amongst seventh graders. Aiden’s mind is swimming with unique, original thought, but sometimes he struggles getting these ideas down on paper. But today was different; Aiden had to write. Instead of the normal practice of reading the writing out loud to a friend, he asked me if he could address the group. After he began, he tossed his writing aside and just spoke from the heart. “Just be yourself,” he says.
This is just the beginning of a longer piece that needs editing and practice with presentation, but Aiden has what it takes. When he speaks, his voice is filled with passion, and the points he makes includes consideration for other people that are different from him. Compassion comes easy for Aiden, which is a testament to the father who raised him, a father whom he loves and respects more than anyone. I am grateful to have students who are cared for by their fathers in this way.
As he spoke, I sat and stifled my cheers and applause so that I wouldn’t interrupt the moment. It was hard to keep these shouts inside because what Aiden chose to do on his own today has been something I’ve been hoping would come with time. He’s always had what it takes to address an audience in a moving and compelling way. Today was his moment to shine, and it certainly won’t be his last…
Bravo, Aiden!! You did it!!! My teacher heart is full, and I am tremendously honored to watch you grow and mature. Now, let’s do some more editing and practice! The stage is yours for the taking….