12/27/2020
20 years! I just celebrated the 20th year in my Wedding DJ career having hosted my first wedding at the Abbey Grille in 2000. What should be a big milestone for me felt a bit empty. Was this really the year that I am going to celebrate this event? The answer is still yes. What was supposed to be my busiest year in my career ended up being the slowest. The rules put in place due to Covid caused all kinds of adjustments in the way I handled events but still, looking back on it now, moments like the one in this picture are part of my journey. Instead of almost 50 weddings this year I hosted 5. Couples cried on the phone with me this year not knowing how to handle the situation. Conversations with other vendors were filled with frustration due to lack of government support or guidance. It seemed everyone was left to fend for themselves. Still, this year can not be the one that overshadows the other 19. The brides and grooms being lifted in the air. The parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins all singing at the top of their lungs. The friends who rocked out to new tracks, old classics, and even cultural songs they knew nothing about. The tears of joy, high fives of happiness, hugs of appreciation that have happened over the past two decades have fulfilled me in ways I can't explain and made me a better person. As I reflect on all of this I want to send out some thank you's. First, to each and every couple that trusted me to host one of the most important days of your life, thank you! To each vendor I have worked beside in creating memories for our couples especially those who I've created a special bond and friendship with, thank you! To the families and friends that danced in front of me, thank you! To my parents, especially my Dad who's been helping me lug heavy cases up and down ramps, stairs, grass, and rocks for the better part of those 20 years, thank you! To my wife, Nelly Saraiva who joined me on this journey 11 years ago, who's been my sidekick with Chris and Nelly - Entertainment & Photography and my business partner working through all the ups and downs one day at a time, thank you! The journey isn't over, I have lots of dancefloors to fill but until then, Thank You!