08/26/2026
A few things I learned as a bride… 🤍
Now that the wedding is over, here’s what I would do differently — and what I would 100% do again.
WHAT I WOULD DO DIFFERENTLY:
🎥 Book the videographer.
My biggest regret. Photos are amazing, but I wish we had the voices, vows, sermon and little moments on video.
🤍 Hire a day-of coordinator.
Someone to take over the details so you can actually be the bride and enjoy your day.
🥂 Hire table service.
Someone to refill waters, clear plates and keep things tidy. Our friends and family stepped in, but I wish they could have just relaxed and enjoyed themselves.
WHAT I WOULD 100% DO AGAIN:
✨ Book Friday + Saturday — Having Friday to set up and rehearse without rushing was worth every penny.
🌱 Hire event styling + setup — Being able to get ready and walk into a completely finished space was priceless.
📸 Hire a second photographer — So many moments are happening at the same time!
🍸 Hire professional bartenders — They kept everything flowing and made the bar fun for our guests.
🎶 Have a great DJ — They do so much more than play music. They keep the entire evening moving.
🍽️ Use real glassware + silverware — It elevated the entire reception.
🥂 Cocktail hour BEFORE the ceremony — One of our favorite decisions! Guests could grab a drink, mingle and relax before we started.
My biggest takeaway:
Spend your money on the things that allow you — and the people you love — to be present and enjoy the day.
It goes by SO fast. 🤍