Art Expression with Mrs. McCord

12/05/2025

Sad but, truth all day and if you don't think American people will be too I pray you are right

11/19/2025

09/07/2023

What an amazing idea for homeschooling

So great

01/27/2023

Violent
Bratty
Snotty
Rude
Disrespectful
Deliberate.
Manipulative
Out of Control
Self-Centered
Impulsive
Abusive
Lazy

If you’ve ever used any of these words to describe your child, you are not alone.

In fact, 9/10 parents I work with start somewhere on this list. They’ve hit their last straw.

They are tired of the calls from school, they’ve tried all the things only to be right back where they started.

They’ve been blamed for their kids behaviors so much that they start to believe their kid is out to get them.

And I get it.

Some of this language has been passed down for generations to describe behaviors that don’t “fit” the narrative of how we believe kids should behave.

I want to introduce you to an important shift in language and narratives about behavior.

Not only will these shifts help you start to actually see change in your children but they will open up new possibilities in your relationships free from guilt, shame, blame or resentment.

These shifts, part of The Iceberg Theory and Operation Carly Simon, are responsible for helping over 300,000 parents move from constant survival mode to a connected and loving relationship with their children.

The shifts are backed by the latest in brain research (the Polyvagel theory) and attachment theory.

These aren’t just cute memes to post on your fridge.

When used consistently, these shifts can radically change the way you interact with your children, your spouse and even your co-workers.

And the best part, it doesn’t take any extra time out of your already filled and busy days. It’s a 2 second shift that you can start right now.

Which one will you try first?

01/27/2023

01/22/2023

11/15/2022

Getting started on a task can be daunting even for adults. Provide this poster for your child and help them work through the checklist to set them up for success during this school year.

11/15/2022

Looking for ways to be more connected and calm with your kids?

✨ The best solution for behavioral challenges is often to focus on connection instead of correction.

Kids need your love & support more than they need to be told what to do in tough moments, and feeling connected to you makes them better listeners when the time does come to work on correcting the behavior.

👇🏽 Try phrases like these to foster that connection and better listening:

💬 “What’s your next step?” Instead of “Stop” or “Be careful” if you’re worried about a risk or mistake, ask Qs that encourage their own problem-solving.

💬 “It seems like you’re having a tough time.” Empathetic phrases like this (instead of “Calm down”) helps kids feel supported & understood, strengthen your relationship, AND calm your child faster.

💬 “I’ll check on you in 5 minutes.” When kids are clingy or demand help you know they don’t need, it’s frustrating for everyone. You need a break, and want them to try on their own—but they just want your love and support. This phrase lets kids practice their own soothing techniques or solutions while knowing you have their back.

💬 “How could we solve this problem?” This encourages a growth mindset response to any issue and shows you’re working together on the same side.

💬 “Thank you for telling me.” This offers positive encouragement for simply communicating openly with you—especially if it was hard for them to tell you—which will be increasingly important as they grow up!

💬 “What would you do if you were me?” Asking for advice boosts their self-esteem. Plus, you can use it to reverse roles and get kids to understand your perspective in a tricky parenting situation.

💬 “I love to see you trying so hard!” Rather than praising results, show you’re paying attention to your child’s efforts. This encourages a growth mindset and provides a nice moment of connection in everyday situations.

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11/10/2022

So many things, great ideas from little hands