06/09/2026
The Things We Leave Behind
by Sarah Poff
I have always believed that objects tell stories.
Not because they are valuable.
Not because they are rare.
But because somewhere along the way, someone held them, carried them, depended upon them, or loved them.
When I look across this collection spread beneath the American flag, I do not simply see military items. I see a life.
A hat that once sat on a young man’s head.
A uniform that carried him through years of service.
Medals that mark moments of courage, sacrifice, and duty.
A faded photograph that reminds us that even soldiers were once young men with dreams of tomorrow.
Perhaps that is why I am drawn to places like this.
Maybe you are too.
Most of us have opened a drawer, climbed into an attic, or sorted through a closet after someone we loved was gone. We pick up an object and suddenly we are no longer holding a thing.
We are holding a memory.
A pocketknife becomes Grandpa.
An apron becomes Mother.
A pair of shoes becomes a grandmother who once walked across this world long before we arrived.
And so it is with these pieces from Major Ernest F. Poff’s life.
The medals tell us what he accomplished.
The uniform tells us where he served.
The West Point book tells us where the journey began.
But the smaller things speak just as loudly.
The notes.
The photographs.
The keepsakes tucked away and saved for reasons only he understood.
Those are the things that remind me he was not simply a soldier. He was a son, a husband, a father, a grandfather, and a man who lived through extraordinary times.
As I grow older, I find myself paying less attention to what people owned and more attention to why they kept it.
Why save this photograph?
Why carry that medal?
Why tuck away a little memento that nobody else would recognize?
Because every life is a collection of stories, and sometimes the objects become the bookmarks.
Looking across this table, I am reminded of something I have learned through years of teaching history and telling stories.
The real treasure is rarely the artifact itself.
The treasure is the life attached to it.
One day, someone will sort through the things we leave behind.
They will hold a photograph, a recipe card, a favorite hat, a well-worn Bible, a paintbrush, or perhaps a box filled with things that seem ordinary.
And if we are fortunate, those objects will whisper our stories long after our voices have grown quiet.
That is why I love history.
That is why I save stories.
And that is why a table filled with old military treasures feels less like a collection to me and more like a conversation across generations.