04/13/2023
TW: sexual assault
When I was 14 I was sexually assaulted by my good friend, someone who I thought I could trust. Someone who I thought would listen to me when I said no. Someone who was deeply confused wether they were attracted to men or women. Throughout my life it has resurfaced in many ways, not feeling “sexy” or desirable is one of the feelings. Throughout the last couple of years I have been healing and learning from the experience and how to help others heal from theirs. Burlesque has been such a safe environment for me to take up space, and to be protected by strong powerful humans around me. To take back my sexy, to be able to say confidently that I love the way I’m made. To celebrate so many different bodies and beautiful imperfections. I grew up so afraid to say anything about how special I am as a person, because I didn’t want to sound big headed or too prideful. Remember the truths of who you are, and say them out loud to people. Say them to yourself in the mirror. Caress your own body and remember that you are wanted, you are beautiful, and you are sexy. And if you are struggling with sexual trauma, just know it does get better. You are in control. Therapy, grace, and a whole lot of love for yourself 🤍
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