09/03/2026
2007. I was 37 years old, and this was one of my very first belly dance performances in North Bay, Ontario, Canada. 💃
These are just snippets from the original video, which is about 20 minutes long.
I was still so new. Most of what I knew about belly dance came from books, a few DVDs, and practicing on my own.
Somehow, I rented a beautiful high-end restaurant called Churchill and created a women’s dance night for our local community.
About 100 people would show up, mostly women.
I would perform for about 15 minutes, then invite the ladies to dance with me for about 5 minutes. After that, the DJ would take over with great music and world music, and everyone would freestyle and dance together for the rest of the night.
I did several of these events, but somehow, this is the only one I have on video.
When I watch it now, I remember how new I really was. I had a mermaid-style dress, a bra I found on eBay, and matching spike heels. 😄
What you can’t see is how incredibly shy I was.
Performing was HARD for me. I had never been comfortable in front of crowds and felt awkward being seen.
But belly dance was changing something inside me.
At 37, I was beginning to love myself in a whole new way.
Belly dance was something new in our North Bay community, and I think people were drawn to the joy of it.
I didn’t have a big plan. I certainly didn’t know where this would lead.
I just knew this dance was changing me, and I wanted to share that feeling with other people.
Looking back almost 20 years later, I can see the little seed of everything that followed: classes, performances, cabarets, galas, students, and community.
Sometimes you don’t begin because you’re ready. You begin because something has awakened inside you, and you can’t help but share it. ✨