18/03/2018
Be free
Yesterday I decided to wear my hat this way as one of my challenges. We often wear our clothes, hair, make-up or style the way we are EXPECTED to, so I chose the unexpected. Even for me I used to be like "I don't want to be too extra. I don't want people to think that I feel I'm in something." I cared SO MUCH about what people thought of me, how they saw me and what they'd probably say or are saying. AFTER MUCH challenges but persistence to overcome my fears (pride, expression, out of my comfort zone, changes, adjusting), I CHOSE ME FOR ONCE, so that I could experience what it's like to be comfortable in my OWN skin, to experience MY opinions first and to experience what it feels like to be FREE. IT FELT AWESOME. NO one knows your personal struggle or the struggles you face on a daily basis. Just you and God. Sometimes we share with friends but the understanding is not as detailed as our actual internal feelings.
Inspiration : Let go of the "norm" and fitting in. Be appropriate, yes but be comfortable in that appropriateness. Someone very special told me that "No opinion matters more than yours believe in you". It doesn't mean that you aren't open minded, however, your character should not be defined by expectations that make you uncomfortable. Your style doesn't meant that you are weird or you don't belong, it's just a matter of you expressing yourself.
Be free in your appropriateness. 'sMotivation