Vonny

25/04/2026

Kung ingani lang tanan relasyon, ingana ra gyud ka sayon. You acknowledge and you address then gradual changes dayon.

25/04/2026

24/04/2026

I came across a tiktok video of a graduation tribute where students were hugging their parents and giving them flowers. But there was this one student who stayed seated while everyone else was celebrating, he was alone. One person approached and comforted him.

And that moment hits differently. Murag gikumot akong kasing kasing nagtanaw.

Because not everyone has the same story.
Not everyone has someone they can call “Mom” or “Dad” to receive those flowers. We taken for granted ang times ngga kauban nato atong ginikanan while there are others nga nag wish “naa unta sila.”

To the students who pushed through and finished despite losing their parents,
this achievement is not any less. If anything, it carries even more weight.

To those who have parents but were never truly parented who had to build themselves on their own,
your strength deserves to be seen.

To those whose parents couldn’t attend because they had to work and survive just know that
their absence doesn’t mean lack of love.
Sometimes their sacrifice is the reason you made it to that stage.

Some students walked that stage with applause.
Others walked it carrying silent battles no one saw.

But all of you…
you made it.

And no matter who wasn’t beside you that day,
never think your victory is incomplete.

Because the strongest graduates are the ones who showed up and finished even when they had to do it mostly on their own.

24/04/2026

galit pa yan sila

24/04/2026

“A woman who is avoidant is a curse…”

I came across this tiktok post and altho somehow a lot of people agrees with it, this kind of wording is a bit to harsh to describe urself. When in reality, avoidant behavior is often a coping pattern and not a character flaw. They did not choose to be like that.

Maybe the word is “challenging” for someone who values emotional openness.

Avoidant tendencies usually come from past experiences. The fear of vulnerability or not being used to emotional expression.

On the other hand, someone with emotional intelligence tends to communicate openly and seek connection.
So yes, maybe there can be a mismatch.

But it’s not about one being a “curse” and the other being “better.”
It’s about different emotional styles that may clash if not understood.

What can be done?

For the avoidant partner maybe let’s try to gradually express feelings even in small steps and recognize that vulnerability is not a weakness

For the emotionally expressive partner maybe avoid overwhelming or forcing conversations and practice patience while creating a safe space.

For both of you, you need to communicate boundaries clearly and meet halfway. You really need to take effort and get out of your comfort zone if you really wanna work things out and if you really love the person.

Kay kung love nimo? You will do everything even if it needs to set aside your issues to defend the person and the relationship

Because relationship is about understanding that love is about learning how to meet each other halfway.

And growth happens when we choose to understand them and love them for who they are.

24/04/2026

now u understand why

24/04/2026

Thank you Lord!

23/04/2026

chatti nag una

23/04/2026

daug ka kung gina myday ka

23/04/2026

so alam mo yun hah