18/04/2023
Do you know this feeling of being in a void? I am in one right now.
In this space we donāt really know who we are.
We left an old version of ourselves and the new one we are about to step in.
The inbetween, is called āthe voidā.
It happens to me each time I do the work and it happens to my clients and itās normal and actually wanted.
But also scary AF.
Itās like running through a forest, in the middle you start to feel creepy but donāt know if you should just keep running and know the end will come soon, of give up and go back.
Well going back isnāt a smart plan.
Having faith and trust in your intuition is what it comes down to.
I share with my clients all the time the raw version of how things work. Truth is what sets us free, what helps us grow and what makes us feel safe to keep going when it gets messy.
So I share what happens to me in this place, so everyone who works with me knows and really gets how to navigate it.
I feel lost, confused, I doubt all my decisions, donāt know where I am going, suddenly donāt like my favorite things, life starts feeling boring, nothing works out the way I wish it, and itās definitely not how I image this succes to be. Actually itās the whole opposite contrast of that. Itās a mind f*ck everyday.
And that very strong pull to go back to what I know, because that feels safe. My old identity knows how to be, act and feel like that.
That pull back can be strong!
I know exactly how to be a traveler, nomad, deal with the ins/outs of consistent change, who is a photographer, who lives everywhere, who doesnāt have much material items, how to be on my own and friends in all different countries and who loves eating healthyā¦. and so on.
Her season is over, I am on Portugal building new things, new experiences, new dreams, but every day my mind tries to win me over, and swing me back to what I already know.
I know in my soul, she is done and new great things are lining up for me, a new space⦠but I donāt know yet who she is.
The old my has to have a funeral and death.
And this is always hard, itās always hard to let go.
Even when we know that moving forward is the most exciting thing to do.
And therefore every day I do the work to stay in my center, follow the truth of my heart.
This is how dreams, life, love, health, relationships, businesses, finances expand.
By becoming the version of you who has already done that. Itās a scary place, I wonāt lie.
And if anyone ever tells you itās easy, itās not.
Itās worth it, itās not the easiest thing.
Yet staying in your old self with all that soul desire and energy wanting you to be a better, more alive, more successful (on your terms ans ideas) version of you ā¦. is harder.
So thatās why they call growth āeasy or effortlessā, but donāt forget there is always work š.
Today I stayed home (while everything in my old self wanted to catch the train to a gorgeous beach 1,5h from here - screaming for some travel) - building and working on the BLOEM Breathwork studio.
Iāve been in the void many times, I donāt like the feeling, it requires a lot of work ⦠and then I remember itās always been worth it. I commit to being faithful to my dreams and soul.
BUT!! I canāt be who I am without this process, and I sincerely love the celebration and feelings when itās done. And I will do it again and again. Because to me living life to the fullest is always worth the stretch and growing pains vs the contrast of compliance.
And I trust that I am able to handle, hold, have and expand everything that is meant for me.
The real work of having it all.
And to me in that void between old and new, the one thing that had always worked is to return to my breath!
And thatās why I am excited to stay home today and build the BLOEM Breathwork Studio, because itās one of the key tools I use when I work with my clients.
When emotions go wild and everything becomes hard and starts pulling, breathing and meditation keep you centered and going + itās great for health!
Anyway I got many requests for coaching and to support on this topic/feeling of being lost. Lost in life, love, business.
There are 3 ways to work together atm:
1. Sign up for the launch of BLOEM Breathwork Studio. Itās worth it!
2. Navigating the Void Masterclass & deep subconscious rewriting meditation.
3. EXPAND - one on one.
* The void masterclass & meditation
* 30 days of Voxer support
* 1h deep energy healing session (1,5h)
&& one month of access to BLOEM.
DM me and weāll get you going!
Sparkle āØ
Tamara