Photosence, Effurun, Warri (2026)

07/03/2025

warri Aproko
WARRI APROKO JIST

"Important Conversation Alert!

I wanted to take a moment to address a concerning trend I've noticed on this page. As a community, we pride ourselves on being supportive and uplifting, but I've noticed that single mothers are often subjected to hurtful comments and judgment.

Meanwhile, single fathers are frequently praised and encouraged to find love again. I've seen comments like, "Nobody wants to marry a single mother," but when it comes to single fathers, we say, "We pray a good woman marries our single father."

This double standard can have serious effects:

1. *Stigma and shame*: Single mothers may feel embarrassed or ashamed of their circumstances.
2. *Low self-esteem*: Constant criticism can erode a person's confidence and self-worth.
3. *Social isolation*: Single mothers may feel like they don't belong or are unwelcome in certain social circles.
4. *Mental health concerns*: Chronic stress and anxiety can lead to depression, anxiety disorders, and other mental health issues.

So, what can we do?

1. *Practice empathy*: Put yourself in a single mother's shoes and try to understand her struggles.
2. *Use inclusive language*: Avoid making assumptions or generalizations about single mothers or fathers.
3. *Celebrate all parents*: Acknowledge and appreciate the hard work and dedication of single mothers and fathers alike.
4. *Create a safe space*: Foster a supportive community where people feel comfortable sharing their stories and concerns.

Let's work together to create a more inclusive and compassionate environment for all parents!

"

14/02/2025

Today, I attended a child dedication ceremony at church. After the dedication, I witnessed a conversation that left me surprised. A friend of the mother's jokingly teased her about the baby's future complexion, saying "This your child when she go black, na?" The mother responded defensively, saying "She no go black oo!" The two women continued to banter back and forth, arguing about whether the baby would grow up to be light-skinned or dark-skinned.

I decided to intervene, asking them a simple yet profound question: "Does the baby's complexion determine her worth as a human being? Does it make her more or less valuable, more or less capable, or more or less deserving of love and respect?"

The room fell silent. They couldn't answer my question because, deep down, they knew that a person's complexion has no bearing on their inherent value or potential.

In that moment, I realized that this is where racism and inferiority complex begin - in the subtle, seemingly harmless conversations that perpetuate harmful stereotypes and reinforce damaging social norms.

As a parent, I've made a conscious decision to celebrate my baby's natural beauty. I use natural oils to nourish her skin, rather than products that alter her complexion. To me, her skin tone is perfect just the way it is - and my love for her isn't conditional on her appearance.

In fact, I believe that the more melanin she has, the more beautiful she becomes! Just like her amazing mother, my baby's dark skin tone is a stunning reflection of our heritage and cultural identity.

By embracing her natural beauty, I hope to instill in my baby a strong sense of self-love and self-acceptance. I want her to grow up knowing that she's perfect just the way she is, and that her worth isn't defined by societal beauty standards.

As a parent, it's my responsibility to shape my baby's self-image and confidence. I'm committed to celebrating her unique beauty and individuality, and to helping her grow into a strong, confident, and beautiful person - inside and out!

By speaking up, I hoped to challenge these norms and encourage a more inclusive and compassionate mindset.

01/02/2025

Love: It's Not About What You Get, But What You Give

We often view love as a feeling, a romantic gesture, or a grand declaration. But true love is so much more than that.

Love is about what you give, not what you get.

It's about:

Showing up for someone, even when it's hard
Listening without judgment, and offering empathy
Supporting each other's dreams, and celebrating successes
Embracing imperfections, and loving unconditionally
Growing together, and learning from each other's mistakes

Love is a choice, not a feeling.

It's a decision to prioritize someone else's needs, to put their happiness above your own, and to work through challenges together.

When we focus on what we can give, rather than what we can get, our relationships transform.

We become:

More selfless, and less selfish
More understanding, and less judgmental
More patient, and less critical
More supportive, and less competitive

So, let's shift our perspective on love.

Let's focus on what we can give, rather than what we can get.

Let's learn to love unconditionally, and to grow together.

Share with someone who inspires you to give your best!

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