31/10/2023
3 SIGNS SOMEONE IS TIRED OF YOU
1) AVOIDING YOUR CALLS
It's one thing if they suddenly stop calling you even when they are not busy, (this is a sign too), but that they are now avoiding your calls too, and when you call with a strange number, they pick immediately.. Know that It's Over.
They read your chats and don't reply. (unlike before) even when they are online.
They no longer text you or reply your texts.
2) AVOIDING YOU
They live in the same neighborhood, or you attend same church, office, but suddenly they are too busy to see you, they avoid eye contact, you saw him just now, before you know it, he's gone without saying Hi to you, and later they cough up an excuse that looks like what a cat threw up.
When they are slowly withdrawing from you, physically, emotionally, financially, something has happened.
3) GIVING YOU UNNECESSARY ATTITUDE
The relationship is becoming unnecessarily hard.
Complains at every little thing, quarrels become more frequent, even for no justifiable, tangible reason.
and then you hear
"if you are tired of me, you can go, I'm not begging you", at this junction, they are tired of you, majority of those who will say those words to you will not mourn you if they lose you....
Reasons WHY they are tired of You:
1) They have gotten what they want from you.
S*x (ladies especially experience this) or money..
2) They have gotten someone else..
When a Relationship is no longer working, when you see the above signs, don't beg,......... okay, let's be realistic, I know it's hard, dialogue, and then move on if that fails,
Don't force a Relationship to Continue, it will still eventually break, 2,3,5 years time, it's just a matter of When.
It's always better if you do the breaking up, than they give you all the signs and symptoms and you ignore em and still hold on till they eventually just up and leave you Yes it may HURT, but you'll HEAL.
to educate others. Cheers 🍻
