15/01/2023
Dear singles, please read this post by Linda Chinemerem Paul
Single people who desire to mingle, I have come to give you unsolicited advice 🥴
I want to address women in particular.
You see eeeh, a man who is ready for marriage can decide to marry next year and he goes ahead to achieve that but that's not the case for women.
A woman has no control over the time she will get married. She can only wish and work towards it.
How can you work towards it?
📌 Stop "Netflixing" all day. Some can lie on the bed for straight 3 days this holiday with a laptop, phone, charger and chinchin without stepping outside. You need to be seen, my dear.
I know a lot of relationships can start online. There are lots of connections that happen offline too.
"I am not the going out type", pls stop it as we enter 2023. Go to parties, go to that family gatherings, go to places you'll meet intelligent and interesting people.
📌 Some women live a triangular 🔺️ life.
"House - Work - House". In some cases "House - Work - Church - House". No social life whatsoever.
If you're single and a church girl, please don't stay in Children's Sunday school class. Tell them to transfer you to Ushering department or Choir. Let mummy them stay in the children's department. You need to be seen by fellow single people.
📌 Look good and attractive. Invest in your outfits and makeup. Look neat, decent and smart. Smell nice. They say the eyes eat first before the mouth.
Check your body and mouth for odour. Wash that wig you've been wearing for years. If you're short like me learn to wear heels. It makes you walk in a certain confident way.
📌 Self development. How much have you invested in yourself? What do you do? What do you know? You don't want to meet someone and you can't even hold a great conversation.
"Have you eaten?" "What did you eat?" That's the only conversation you know.
You see, a lot of people are sapiosexual. They are attracted to intelligent people. No one wants liability. You should be that woman your partner will be proud to show off.
Learn a skill, keep reading and upgrading yourself.
📌 Yidebe ara na social media. Stop constituting nuisance online because people are cheering and fueling your drama.
It is the behaviour you put out here that will be stamped in the minds of people. We don't know if you're a peaceful person outside here.
I usually low key connect people here and I'll never recommend anyone with an uncouth and razz behaviour here. I don't care if you're an Angel outside here.
📌 Stop being desperate. It will put off anyone you meet. Keep your desperation locked up somewhere to allow you build friendship. However, know when you are with a time waster and draw the line.
Finally, may LOVE find everyone who desires it and may it lead to that forever bond that you're praying for. Amen!
Tenkiu don't mention.
PS. B.u.l.l.e.t hit me small from this post 😂😂😂Dear singles, please read this post by Linda Chinemerem Paul
Single people who desire to mingle, I have come to give you unsolicited advice 🥴
I want to address women in particular.
You see eeeh, a man who is ready for marriage can decide to marry next year and he goes ahead to achieve that but that's not the case for women.
A woman has no control over the time she will get married. She can only wish and work towards it.
How can you work towards it?
📌 Stop "Netflixing" all day. Some can lie on the bed for straight 3 days this holiday with a laptop, phone, charger and chinchin without stepping outside. You need to be seen, my dear.
I know a lot of relationships can start online. There are lots of connections that happen offline too.
"I am not the going out type", pls stop it as we enter 2023. Go to parties, go to that family gatherings, go to places you'll meet intelligent and interesting people.
📌 Some women live a triangular 🔺️ life.
"House - Work - House". In some cases "House - Work - Church - House". No social life whatsoever.
If you're single and a church girl, please don't stay in Children's Sunday school class. Tell them to transfer you to Ushering department or Choir. Let mummy them stay in the children's department. You need to be seen by fellow single people.
📌 Look good and attractive. Invest in your outfits and makeup. Look neat, decent and smart. Smell nice. They say the eyes eat first before the mouth.
Check your body and mouth for odour. Wash that wig you've been wearing for years. If you're short like me learn to wear heels. It makes you walk in a certain confident way.
📌 Self development. How much have you invested in yourself? What do you do? What do you know? You don't want to meet someone and you can't even hold a great conversation.
"Have you eaten?" "What did you eat?" That's the only conversation you know.
You see, a lot of people are sapiosexual. They are attracted to intelligent people. No one wants liability. You should be that woman your partner will be proud to show off.
Learn a skill, keep reading and upgrading yourself.
📌 Yidebe ara na social media. Stop constituting nuisance online because people are cheering and fueling your drama.
It is the behaviour you put out here that will be stamped in the minds of people. We don't know if you're a peaceful person outside here.
I usually low key connect people here and I'll never recommend anyone with an uncouth and razz behaviour here. I don't care if you're an Angel outside here.
📌 Stop being desperate. It will put off anyone you meet. Keep your desperation locked up somewhere to allow you build friendship. However, know when you are with a time waster and draw the line.
Finally, may LOVE find everyone who desires it and may it lead to that forever bond that you're praying for. Amen!
Tenkiu don't mention.
PS. B.u.l.l.e.t hit me small from this post 😂😂😂Dear singles, please read this post by Linda Chinemerem Paul
Single people who desire to mingle, I have come to give you unsolicited advice 🥴
I want to address women in particular.
You see eeeh, a man who is ready for marriage can decide to marry next year and he goes ahead to achieve that but that's not the case for women.
A woman has no control over the time she will get married. She can only wish and work towards it.
How can you work towards it?
📌 Stop "Netflixing" all day. Some can lie on the bed for straight 3 days this holiday with a laptop, phone, charger and chinchin without stepping outside. You need to be seen, my dear.
I know a lot of relationships can start online. There are lots of connections that happen offline too.
"I am not the going out type", pls stop it as we enter 2023. Go to parties, go to that family gatherings, go to places you'll meet intelligent and interesting people.
📌 Some women live a triangular 🔺️ life.
"House - Work - House". In some cases "House - Work - Church - House". No social life whatsoever.
If you're single and a church girl, please don't stay in Children's Sunday school class. Tell them to transfer you to Ushering department or Choir. Let mummy them stay in the children's department. You need to be seen by fellow single people.
📌 Look good and attractive. Invest in your outfits and makeup. Look neat, decent and smart. Smell nice. They say the eyes eat first before the mouth.
Check your body and mouth for odour. Wash that wig you've been wearing for years. If you're short like me learn to wear heels. It makes you walk in a certain confident way.
📌 Self development. How much have you invested in yourself? What do you do? What do you know? You don't want to meet someone and you can't even hold a great conversation.
"Have you eaten?" "What did you eat?" That's the only conversation you know.
You see, a lot of people are sapiosexual. They are attracted to intelligent people. No one wants liability. You should be that woman your partner will be proud to show off.
Learn a skill, keep reading and upgrading yourself.
📌 Yidebe ara na social media. Stop constituting nuisance online because people are cheering and fueling your drama.
It is the behaviour you put out here that will be stamped in the minds of people. We don't know if you're a peaceful person outside here.
I usually low key connect people here and I'll never recommend anyone with an uncouth and razz behaviour here. I don't care if you're an Angel outside here.
📌 Stop being desperate. It will put off anyone you meet. Keep your desperation locked up somewhere to allow you build friendship. However, know when you are with a time waster and draw the line.
Finally, may LOVE find everyone who desires it and may it lead to that forever bond that you're praying for. Amen!
Tenkiu don't mention.
PS. B.u.l.l.e.t hit me small from this post 😂😂😂
