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18/06/2026

MOMENT OF DAILY ENCOUNTER (MODE)

DATE: 18TH JUNE, 2026

TOPIC : THE CO-PILOT OF THE FAMILY LIFE
⚓Scripture: Ephesians 5: 22. Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.

Beloved, I welcome you to another Moment of Daily Encounter! Previously, we established that the family life can be liken to an aircraft that has pilots. The pilot in this case is the husband being the Head of the family, while the wife is the co-pilot. As matter of fact, we must understand that commandments/instructions are keys to high flyers! That is why you don't fly an aircraft by guessing, it has to be by instruction. Similarly, if we are to fly the aircraft of a successful family life to safe landing we must take heed to Divine instruction from the manufacturer of marriage institutions. This Divine instruction is directed to each of the pilots. Previously, we looked at instruction directed at the pilot-1 being husband. Today, we shall be looking at divine instruction to the co- pilot of family life being the wife.

From our anchor scripture,
*Ephesians 5: 22. Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord* .

We can make three observations from the above scripture:
A.Observe God's command is clearly directed to WIVES! "Wives submit yourselves." So if you are not a wife, you will not be able to submit. Permit me to ask this question: Are you a wife ? If yes! God's command to you is SUBMISSION.
Submission is a word many wives don't want to hear because of our fallen nature. The flesh we inherited from Adam as a result of our fallen human nature will resist any command to submit. However, the transformed minds that have deaden the flesh can obey this instruction without hesitation. And the instruction is to submit! It didn't say submit to a nice and loving husband rather submit to your husband wether nice or not. So your submission is unconditional!

B. Observed the clause "your own husbands"! So if the man in question is your own husband then your submission is compulsory. This implies that husband submission is not submission to every man on the street. The submission the Bible speaks of is to your own husband meaning if a man marries you legally, your submission to him is a must. Now, to all the singles ladies out there, please note if you are not ready to submit to that guy hanging around you now in the name of marriage please don't marry him. Don't marry a man you can not submit to, whether he is tall or short, educated like you or not? As long as you say yes to him get ready to submit to his authority.

C. Observed again that the limit of your submission as a wife is "as unto the Lord"! Invariably there is no wife that can easily submit to her husband if she hasn't submit to the Lord.

Beloved wife, if you can submit wholeheartedly to the Lord then submission to your husband is easy! But if you are still struggling to submit to God it will be difficult to submit to your husband! I will therefore counsel you that you go ahead and submit to God all your aspirations, your will, your vision, your passion, your education, your beauty, your money, your pursuit and your entire life and watch God empowering you to submit to your husband cheaply.

*Why should you submit to your husband?*
I. It is in obedient to God’s instruction (Eph.5:22)
II. It helps you to silent the gate of hell that attack family life.(Gen.3:1-6)
III. Your submission is a weapon to slap the devil(2Cor.10:6).
IV. It is the only satisfactory condition to fulfill your destiny maritally(Prov. 31:11)

Beloved wife, you are created with the dimensions of God which is a helper and a builder! And that can only be possible in an atmosphere of submission. The devil knows your worth! The devil is afraid of the enmous energy with strategy wired into you by God that enables you to help and build any man in your life. Hence, the devil will make you disloyal your head and tag you a rebel in the realm of the spirit. Therefore, reject every heart of insurbodination to your husband, and you will cheaply win his love. May I submit this to you, there is no man who enjoys his wife submission that does not love his wife. The wife automatically win the love of her husband via submission because submission is like a magnetic force that magnetised love. No matter how tough your husband may be, you can win his heart and his love cheaply by submitting to him. Try it today and you will thank me later.

*What is submission?*
According to Merriam Webster dictionary: submission is the state of being obedient : the act of accepting the authority or control of someone

Therefore husband submission is the willingness of a wife to accept her husband authority. It is being loyal to your own husband. Readiness to obey husband's instruction gladly even when it hurt or your opinion is shelf aside. This has made many wives a rebel in the realm of the spirit because they are acting in blatant disobedience to the scripture. If you must excel, then choose to obey the word of God.

*Remember this*: Heaven is real and hell is real. Jesus is coming soon, get ready for the Lord.
*Prayer points* :
~ Father thank you for your word to me today.
~ Lord help me to be a submissive wife, help me to be loyal to my husband so that I can fulfill your purpose in my family life in Jesus name.
*Prophetic Declaration;*
~ I prophesy the baptism of submission, receive it now in the name of Jesus.
~ To every single trusting God to be married, may God cause you to meet with your spouse this season in Jesus name.

*Assignment:* Do a soul searching of the level of your submission to your husband and see how to improve on it today.

From your brother Alex
God bless you
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17/06/2026

MOMENT OF DAILY ENCOUNTER (MODE)

Date: 17TH JUNE, 2026

TOPIC : THE HUSBANDS IS THE HEAD OF THE FAMILY LIFE
⚓Scripture: Ephesians 5: 23. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.

Beloved, I welcome you to another Moment of Daily Encounter! In every organisation or institution there is always a leadership structure put in place for smooth running of the organisation/institution. The family life is not an exception, the leadership of the family is so vital that God carefully select the man put a dimension of Himself into the man and mandate him to lead the family. It is this leadership of the family life that is often refers to as headship of the family and that is our focus for today.

*What do we mean by being head of the family?*
The head of the family is simply the principal figure of the family which happens to be husband! Being husband automatically conferred on you the Headship of the family.
According to our anchor scripture (Eph.5:23); The husband is the head of the family! God made him head for the purpose of administration of authority in the family line!. Just as a man pour water on the head and the entire body eventually recieve some measure of the water even down to your feet. So also the head of the family recieve authority on behalf of the family. He takes decision on behalf of the family. If God wants to bless the family, He blesses the head of the family while the blessing eventually flows to every member of the family. This is also the reason why if the devil wants to get the family into covenant he ensure he lure the head of the family in making the covenant that binds on every member of the family because he understands Headship. There are so many persons who are fighting endless battles because of the covenant their father enters with the devil. The Bible said:
*Ephesians 5: 23. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.*

*What does it mean to be head of the family?*
It means to provide leadership: Headship is leadership (1Cor.11:3, Eph. 5:23)and leadership is influenced! A man influences his family through prayer, teaching of the word of God, and moral impartation. Just as Christ does not Lord himself over the church, so also husband should not lord it over their wife. You don't demand for it, naturally your place must be given to you as the head if you play your part as a role model in the family.

*What leadership does the head provide?*
To answer this question we shall consider what the head is made of;
The head is made up of:
I. The Eyes: Eyes is for sight! Eyes represent vision! Hence, to be the head of a family simply means you are the eyes of the family. You will be the one to see on behalf of the family. The vision for the growth, survival/sustenance of the family is hanging on you. The husband must be able to put up a plan, design a system for day to day running of the family.

II. Nose: The nose is for perception. The husband must be able to perceived in the spirit and take decisive action on behalf of the family.

III. Ear: The ear is for hearing! It is the role of the husband/father being the head of the family to hear on behalf of the family. When God wanted Abraham to move out of Ur of Chaldeans, He didn't speak to Sarah the wife of the family, rather He spoke to Abraham (Gen.12:1). Also when he wanted Abraham to sacrifice his son He didn't talk to Sarah, it was still Abraham the head of the family(Gen.22:1-3). The role of the husband is to hear God's instructions on behalf of the family.

IV. Mouth: The mouth is for talking. Hence it is responsibility of the head of the family being the husband to speak on behalf of the family. He is the spokesman of the family. He is the authorize voice in the realm of the spirit. He can bring in a curse or a blessing upon his family.
*1 Chronicles 16: 43. And all the people departed every man to his house: and David returned to bless his house.*

Please observed the statement "and David returned to bless his house"! This is a clear example of a husband/father who understands the use of authority with his mouth.

Beloved, what do you bring upon your family with your mouth? Is it a blessing or a curse? It is quite unfortunate that many have brought a damaging impact on their family than blessings! In most parts of Africa we know more of words that can bring curses than blessings. With our mouth we have entered into strange covenant with the devil that plays out on the lives of unborn generations.

Dear husband learn to bless your family with your mouth. Learn to pray for your wife like Isaac did to his wife.
Isaac prayed to the Lord on behalf of his wife, because she was childless. The Lord answered his prayer, and his wife Rebekah became pregnant.
Genesis 25:21 NIV

Isaac terminated the yoke of barrenness with his own mouth because he understands his role as a husband, he recognized the authority in his mouth and deployed it.
*Proverbs 18: 21. Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof.*

*Remember this*: Heaven is real and hell is real. Don't joke with your eternal soul, get serious with Jesus today.
*Prayer points:*
~ Father thank you for your word to me today.
~ Father, I receive grace to be a good head to my family, influencing the family positively in Jesus name .
*Prophetic Declaration:*
~ I prophesy restoration of every broken homes in the name of Jesus.
~ Your marriage will not be victims of satanic attack in the name of Jesus.
~To all the singles in the house you will have the best marriage in the name of Jesus
*Assignment* : Use your authority as a husband and bless your family today.

From your brother Alex
God bless you
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16/06/2026

MOMENT OF DAILY ENCOUNTER (MODE)

Date: 16TH JUNE, 2026

TOPIC: HUSBANDS LOVE YOUR WIVES WITHOUT BITTERNESS
⚓Scripture: Colossians 3: 19. Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.

Beloved, I welcome you to another Moment of Daily Encounter! In continuation of what we started yesterday about God's command to husband in piloting the family life.

We did establish that God's instructions to husbands according to scripture is to love their wives unconditionally.
*Ephesians 5: 25. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;*

Dear husband, if you must pilot the aircraft of your marriage to safe landing, one instruction that must not be ignored is love. Loving your wife is a command, not an advice or suggestions. So you can choose to obey God's instructions by loving your wife or disobey God by not loving her! And be rest assured that if you disobey the instruction to love, your aircraft is heading to a crashed.

Our anchor scripture added another clause be not bitter against your wife:
*Colossians 3: 19. Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.*

Yes indeed there are several bitter husbands because the kind of wife they are married to; they did all they could to love their wives and they expected submission from their wives in response to their show of love but receive the opposite! Infact it is a case of betrayal of trust. Wives that are supposed to cover their husbands sold them out especially during challenging time! Many hearts have been stabbed and they are bleeding already because the wife they married has turned from being a wife to a knife.

Dear bleeding husband, I prophesy healing for you today in the name of Jesus! Weeping may endure for a night but joy cometh in the morning! Your joy is coming in the name of Jesus. I shared in your feelings and your pain! However, we can not continue to bleed for ever, we must embrace the word of God that says be not bitter against your wife. Bitterness has a grave consequences, therefore stop being bitter rather makes the choice to forgive your wife and go ahead to love her.

Beloved, it is possible that as a result of repeated pain you have developed a heart to repel your wife emotional pain and now you pretend to be in love whereas that is not true! I bring you a word from the Holy Spirit, don't pretend to show you are in love whereas you are still bitter against her! Open up that wounded heart to the Holy Spirit for healing, and I pray healing is coming your way right now in the name of Jesus.

Dear husband, if you allow the attitude of your wife to pi**ed you off continously, you might not be able to obey the scripture! So look beyond her character and offensive attitude, choose to obey the command to love as instructed by God. Stay off from offence and bitterness because bitterness defiles, the Bible said:
*Hebrews 12: 15. Looking diligently lest any man fail of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and thereby many be defiled;*

You will not be defiled in the name of Jesus.
To love a wife is a serious command to husband hence we must understand how to love a wife.
*How do you manifest love to your wife?*
You manifest love to your wife by studying her love language and speak it to her.
According to Dr. Garry Chapman, there are five love languages that helps every husband to manifest love to their wife. We treated two yesterday. They are:
I. Words of affirmation
II. The acts of service

And today we are looking at;
III. *Giving and receiving of gift.* There are women no matter your words of affirmation and your act of service if you don't give gifts to them, they believe you don't love them. This is also in accordance with scripture:
*John 3: 16. For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.*

Love gives! So it is not out of place to give gift to your wife as a prove of love. If this is your wife love language then speak it to her. Note also not every woman will be move by giving gift.

IV. *Quality time spent* ! There are women who if given all the good things of this life, as long as you don't have time for them, you are not speaking their love language. As a matter of fact, it is only if you spent time with them, then you are speaking their love language. So you must bring out time and listen to your wife while she express herself. Some men complain "my wife talk too much "! This are men who don't know their purpose in that marriage. A man who knows why God place him in that marriage must make out time to listen to his wife. If you don't have time for your wife, she goes out to the neighborhood to express herself to whomever cares to listen. Therefore, understand your wife love language and speak it to her by spending time with her.

V.*Physical touch* : there are women whose love language is physical touch, so if you give words of affirmation, act of service, give gifts and spend time with them, yet until you give them a pat on their back, a hug, a peck, a kiss they wouldn't feel love. This are the group that want to hold your hands while walking on the street! The unfortunate thing is that it does happened in courtship and probably the first year of marriage. But as time goes on things begin to change.
Dear Husband, the knowledge of how to speak your wife love language is worthy of study as God kept you in that marriage to show love.

To be continue tommorow!

*Remember this:* Heaven is real and hell is real. Eternity lies ahead every man. Prepare to meet thy God..
*Prayer points:*
~ Father thank you for your word to me today.
~ Lord help me to love without bitterness in the name of Jesus
*Prophetic Declaration:*
~ I prophesy every marriage that is currently tearing apart be heal in the name of Jesus.
~ To all singles out there, may the Lord give you a lovely a family in the name of Jesus.
*Assignment:* Kindly study your wife love language and speak it to today.

From your brother Alex
God bless you
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©MODE20260616
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15/06/2026

MOMENT OF DAILY ENCOUNTER (MODE)

Date: 15TH JUNE, 2026

TOPIC : GOD'S ORDAINED PILOT OF THE FAMILY LIFE
⚓Scripture :Ephesians 5: 25. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;

Beloved, I welcome you to another Moment of Daily Encounter with the word. The family life can be liken to an aircraft and every aircraft is flown by a pilot and a co-pilot. One thing that is certain about aircraft is that it flies by instructions. No one flies the aircraft by guessing or assumption it is purely by instructions! So, also is this beautiful institution that is called marriage and family life. There's is a Divine instruction to the pilot, being the husband and head of the family and also for the wife who also is a co-pilot. Today, we shall look at God's instructions to pilot-1 being husband the head of the family.

In this kingdom, it is commandments that makes you you a commander. Our ability to obey God's commandments or instructions is what put you over every issues of life. Marriage is not an exception, our willingness to obey scriptural instructions will deliver our marital destiny from crashing. Divine commandments make you a commander in life!

*What are God's divine commandment to pilot-1 being husband?*
I. Husbands love your Wives: This is the command that is directed at the head of every family as stated in our anchor scripture:
*Ephesians 5: 25. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;*

When you look at the above scripture, you will notice that the husband's love for the wife is compared to the love of Christ to the church. So, to what extent is the love of Christ to the church? It is to the point of dying for her. Marriage is a mystery because it pictures the love that exists between Christ and the church

It is quite unfortunate that many tongue talking husband fails in this regards as some have turn their wives into a punching bag.! If you truly love your wife, you wouldn't beat her and if you profess to love and yet beat her then something is wrong with your knowledge of the word of God. So when you see a wife be**er, abusive husbands you are in touch with men that lack knowledge of the word of God or men who haven't renew their minds to the point that the word is hold on high esteemed higher than any culture or peoples opinion. I'm aware there are cultures that support wife abuse/beating, but every culture that negate the word of God must be put aside. That is why mind renewal is a must even though you are born again.

God's command to husbands is love your wife unconditionally! If you are a husband, this rule applies to you, love without conditions nor restriction. There is a dimension of God place in the woman, to receive love! Also there's a dimension of God wired into the man to give love! As a man, If you understand this dimension and follow it up, your family life will be heaven on earth.

The lack of knowledge of the word of God being the manual for life has make so many marriages a bitter pill. It is necessary that every man acquire knowledge of the family life. The Bible said :
*1 Peter 3: 7. Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.*

Living with a wife, required knowledge, if you don't have this knowledge , and complying with it even your prayer can be hinder! So every man must know how to love his wife.

According to Dr. Garry Chapman, there are five love languages which can help you manifest love to your wife. They includes :
I. *Words of affirmation* : This is affirming and reaffirming your love towards your wife. As a husband, Hold your wife's hands and look straight into her eye ball and say to her "I love you"! This must not be once but on consistent basis! Shower your praise at your wife. This is in accordance with the scripture :
*Song of Solomon 2: 14. O my dove, that art in the clefts of the rock, in the secret places of the stairs, let me see thy countenance, let me hear thy voice; for sweet is thy voice, and thy countenance is comely.*

There are times she will dress up and be waiting for your endorsement and comments on her dress. Tell her she is the queen of your life! Infact if every body commend her and her husband has not, she will not feel fulfil. Dear husband, God kept you in that relationship to express love to your wife through the word of your mouth.
However, It is worthy of note that not all women will feel love by words of affirmation, hence you must study your wife like a book and know what is her own love language.

II. *The act of service* : This is the second love language! There are women who complain my husband says he love me but have never help me. To them it is act of service that will fill up their love tank. Husband learn to give your wife, a little help here and there. Don't seat down and watch TV while your wife is struggling to fix the meal. Go to her and ask is there any thing I can do for you? Give her a helping hand and you will be speaking her love language. Also note that not every woman accept the act of service.

To be continue tommorow!

*Remember this* : Heaven is real and hell is real. To escape destruction and eternity in hell, give your heart to Jesus today.
*Prayer points* :
~ Father thank you for your word to me today,
~ Father, I receive grace to love my wife unconditionally in Jesus name.
*Prophetic Declaration* :
~ I prophesy love revolution in every homes in the name of Jesus.
~ To the un-married, I declare you will not miss it in marriage in Jesus mighty name.

*Assignment:* Do a study of your wife and learn her love language to be able to manifest love to her.

From your brother Alex
God bless you
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14/06/2026

MOMENT OF DAILY ENCOUNTER (MODE)

Date: 14TH JUNE, 2026

TOPIC: THE SECONDARY PURPOSE OF MARRIAGE INSTITUTIONS (PART 3)
⚓Scripture: Genesis 3: 1. Now the serpent was more subtil than any beast of the field which the LORD God had made. And he said unto the woman, Yea, hath God said, Ye shall not eat of every tree of the garden?

Beloved, I welcome you to another Moment of Daily Encounter! In continuation from where we stop yesterday about secondary purpose of marriage institutions.

As a recap; the secondary purpose of marriage are:
I. For procreation( birthing of a new life)
II. For s*xual intimacy
III. For companionship! We looked at various dimensions of companionship:
A. Companionship in business/calling
B. Companionship as in providing support for each other
C. Companionship in keeping each other warm.
D. Companion in battle (Details of this in yesterday meditation)

E. Companionship in Gisting or conversation: Your spouse should be your gist-mate! One easy way to create bond in marriage is through gisting, that is constant talking/conversation together. Couples who are not talking frequently are missing out a lot! This is because talking helps you to communicate your feelings, your fears, your worries, your pains etc. Although there are inevitable circumstances that can keep your spouse far away from you but you must make out time to talk. And for those living together under the same roof yet no smooth conversation between them is unhealthy for the union. You must not allow over busy schedule of daily activities to hinder your time of conversation with your family. Whatever halt your communication at home is trying to snif life out of your marriage. It is like someone they tied his throat and nose together, it wouldn't be long that person will die. So also any marriage where the husband and wife are not talking regularly or they are always keeping malice that marriage is bound to collapse in a matter of time.

It amaze me when I see couples who started out in love gradually fizzle out in love! The reason is not far fetch, where couples are constantly not in talking terms, it wouldn't be long love will take her exit from that family.

Communication amongst couples is highly recommended because it brings understanding and understanding breed love. However misunderstanding kills love.The Bible said;
*Amos 3: 3. Can two walk together, except they be agreed?*

Your walking together is a function of your agreement. And agreement comes easily when you talk frequently and understand yourself frequently. Although the possibility exists where there's misunderstanding but constant talking will clear it off. So, Make your spouse your gist mate and your home will soon become heaven on earth. There are wives that went out to gist and created problems for their family just because her husband was not a listener at home!

Our anchor scripture (Gen.3:1) reveals that Eve was constantly talking with the serpent on regular basis that was why the devil could decieves her easily. Ask yourself where was Adam when Eve was gisting with serpent the devil?. I pray you will not be replaced in your home by the devil in the name of Jesus.

Please note that companionship shouldn't be your primary purpose of marriage. If it is your primary purpose of entering marriage, frustration abound where expectations are disappointed.

IV. *For protection (Eph. 5:25-32):* Security is one major requirements for every woman especially emotional security! Marriage provides that security that couples desires when they were single. Infact, every single person out there is looking for someone whom he/she will feel save in their arms. While the husband protect his wife physically and spiritually, the wife must also protect her husband spiritually in the place of prayer of intercession.

Similarly, as children begins to come into the family, they also require a secure home to develop mentally. Every child needs emotional security, it is when they feel secure that they can open up areas of concern and fears to their parents.

*Remember this*: Heaven is real and hell is real. The decision to spend eternity with God can begin now by giving your heart to Jesus.
*Prayer points:*
~ Father thank you for your word to me today.
~ Lord I received grace to make my spouse my gist mate and also maintain security of my family in the name of Jesus.
*Prophetic Declaration;*
~ I declare your marriage is blessed in the name of Jesus
~ For everyone battling with spirit spouse, your deliverance begins now in the name of Jesus.

*Assignment:* Determine to make out time to gist with your spouse and children regularly. To the unmarried learn to keep priviledge information secret.

From your brother Alex
God bless you.
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13/06/2026

MOMENT OF DAILY ENCOUNTER (MODE)

Date: 13TH JUNE, 2026

TOPIC: THE SECONDARY PURPOSE OF MARRIAGE INSTITUTIONS (PART 2)
⚓Scripture: Ecclesiastes 4:9 Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour. 10 For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up.

Beloved, I welcome you to another Moment of Daily Encounter! We started yesterday by sharing on the secondary purpose of marriage. Today we intends to continue.

*What are secondary purpose of marriage?*
I. For procreation(birthing of new life)
II. For provision of a ground for s*xual expression. Marriage is the only legal ground for s*xual intimacy. However, the following must be noted about s*xual intimacy in marriage.
A. It is not meant for trade by bater. Meaning don't say until you do this and that before I can give my body to you. Don't starve your spouse with s*x because you gave condition that he/she could not meet. If you do it trade by bater you are violating the scripture (1Cor.7:5).

B. Marriage does not stop fornication/ adultery! This is because the chief sponsor of fornication/ adultery is lust! So you can be married and still be lusting after someone else hence adultery or fornication continue even when married until you deal with your lust and discipline your appetite for s*x. This explains why Jesus said adultery could happen in your heart even without going to bed (Matt.5:28)! So discipline your eyes and your heart to avoid adultery in the heart. If you are not discipline s*xually and also get transformed in your mind lust will continue to ruin your life, such that you will not only cheat on your spouse, it will graduate into in**st and pe*****le.

III. *For companionship (Gen.2:20, Ecc. 4:9-11):*
It is part of God's design that as the man and woman comes together in marriage they enjoy the companion of each other. This is the most important thing at old age. Every one needs a companion in life especially as one is getting older! The companionship is in various degrees which includes:
A. Companionship in Business/kingdom assignment; Helping each other to succeed in life:
*Eccl. 4:9 Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed.( NLT)*

In whatever business your spouse is into, it is expected that both join their hands together to help the business succeed. For those in ministry it is their responsibility to ensure the ministry of their spouse succeed by putting in their maximum support.

B. Companionship in providing support for each other:
*Ecclesiastes 4: 10. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up.*

Support your spouse, spiritually, mentally, emotionally, physically and financially! Don't ever watch your spouse falling, do all you can to raise him/her up. This is where there's much responsibility for those who married Pastors! A lot of investment in prayers must be done to support your spouse.

C. Companionship in keeping each other warm;
*Ecclesiastes 4: 11. Again, if two lie together, then they have heat: but how can one be warm alone?*

The sister can bear witness to this that there is no amount of blankets that can substitute for the warmth of a spouse! This explains why some person sleep with pets, some with teddy bear. But such can never replace the one whom should be your spouse. By God's designed, there's a measure of heat that is generated from men's body that keep spouse warmth when they lie down together.

D. Companion in battle;
*Eccl. 4:12 A person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and conquer. Three are even better, for a triple-braided cord is not easily broken. (NLT)*

Your spouse automatically becomes your team mate in battles. He must always join forces together with you to fight whatever is fighting the family. He/she must not join the enemy to fight you rather both of you join forces together to fight the enemy. This is where couples can maximize the scripture in praying agreement prayer;
*Matthew 18: 19. Again I say unto you, That if two of you shall agree on earth as touching any thing that they shall ask, it shall be done for them of my Father which is in heaven.*

E. Companionship in Gisting; Your spouse should be your gist-mate! It is quiet unfortunate that is not so in many quarters. Many wives have brought problem to their husbands because they went out in search for a gisting mate because they don't have one at home. Please stop complaining about the attitude of your spouse towards gisting be there to listen to her, that is part of your been in that marriage.

To be continue tomorrow!

*Remember this*; Heaven is real and hell is real. Many have gone, don't be part of the statistics, give your heart to Jesus today.
*Prayer points:*
~ Father thank you for your word to me today.
~ Lord, help me to be a good companion to my spouse in Jesus name.
*Prophetic Declaration:*
~ I prophesy the release of Grace to be the best companion to your spouse in the name of Jesus.
~ To every single out there, you will not miss the best companion as your spouse in the name of Jesus

*Assignment:* Today, we should ask ourselves this question and answer it;
To the unmarried; what sort of companion are you preparing to be ? And to the married, can you truly say you are the ideal companion for your spouse ?

From your brother Alex
God bless you.
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