Lurielsmylz

08/01/2021

The decision to get married will impact one's life more
deeply than almost any decision in life. Yet people continue
to rush into marriage with little or no preparation for making
a marriage successful. In fact, many couples give far more
attention to making plans for the wedding than making plans
for marriage. The wedding festivities last only a few hours,
while the marriage, we hope, will last for a lifetime”KO

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20/05/2020

What is Forgiveness #

To learn how to forgive, you must first learn what forgiveness is not. Most of us hold at least some misconceptions about forgiveness. Here are some things that forgiving someone doesn't mean:

Forgiveness doesn't mean you are pardoning or excusing the other person's actions.

Forgiveness doesn't mean you need to tell the person that he or she is forgiven.

Forgiveness doesn't mean you shouldn't have any more feelings about the situation.

Forgiveness doesn't mean there is nothing further to work out in the relationship or that everything is okay now.

Forgiveness doesn't mean you should forget the incident ever happened.

Forgiveness doesn't mean you have to continue to include the person in your life.
.. and forgiveness isn't something you do for the other person.

By forgiving, you are accepting the reality of what happened and finding a way to live in a state of resolution with it. This can be a gradual process and it doesn't necessarily have to include the person you are forgiving. Forgiveness isn't something you do for the person who wronged you; it's something you do for you.

So if forgiveness is something you do for yourself and if it can help you heal, why is it so hard?

There are several reasons: You're filled with thoughts of retribution or revenge; you enjoy feeling superior; you don't know how to resolve the situation; you're addicted to the adrenaline that anger provides; you self identify as a "victim"; or you're afraid that by forgiving you have to reconnect or lose your connections with the other person. These reasons not to forgive can be resolved by becoming more familiar with yourself, with your thoughts and feelings, and with your boundaries and needs.
Now that you know what forgiveness is not and why it's so hard to do, ask yourself: Do I want to forgive?

Forgiveness requires feeling willing to forgive. Sometimes you won't, because the hurt went too deep, or because the person was too abusive.

08/05/2020

She is wife material!
With this qualities

Not everyone is going to be cut out for marriage. In fact, not a lot of people are going to have the kind of emotional maturity, love, and patience that it takes to make a relationship last. So if you manage to land yourself a woman who actually has all the qualities of being wife-material, then you shouldn’t let her go. You should consider yourself lucky and you have to fight like hell to keep this girl in your life. You have to put in all the time and effort that’s necessary to make her believe that you are actually worthy of her love.

But what does she look like? What does this ideal woman look like? Well, you have to read on until the end of this article to know for sure. A great woman is hard to find. A great woman is a gift. And there are many facets of a person’s character that actually make them great. Here are some qualities that you are sure to find in a girl who is wife-material. So if your girl happens to exhibit a lot of these qualities, then you better make sure that you don’t let her slip away.

1. SHE ALWAYS ACTS LIKE HER REAL AND GENUINE SELF.

You never feel like you have to second-guess her character. She always keeps it real whenever she’s with you regardless of the situation. You always know that she would never act fake because she is always honest with you.

2. SHE ISN’T AFRAID OF BEING OPEN ABOUT HER FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS.

You don’t have to play games in the relationship. You don’t have to play the role of a mind reader. If something is bothering her, she is going to tell you about it. If you make her happy, she will let you know.

3. SHE IS SUPPORTIVE OF EVERYTHING THAT YOU WANT TO ACHIEVE IN LIFE.

She will never serve as a hurdle or an obstacle for you to achieve all of your dreams and goals. She is always going to make sure that she pushes you towards everything that you want to get done in your life.

4. SHE HAS A GREAT SENSE OF HUMOR.

A girl who knows how to laugh is definitely a keeper. As you get older

15/07/2019

03/06/2019

Lifting up ur hands as a living sacrifice to the king of glory is the best sacrifice you can offer to God

03/06/2019

It might look as if there is is nothing on earth for u, it's Because that rain of miracle's as not fallen on you, when it fall nobody we recognized you, those who laughed at you we bow in shame

10/11/2017