20/11/2025
WHEN IS IT PERFECT TO BE IMPERFECT?
The explosion of social media coupled with AI has given way to a world of seemingly attainable perfection. How to dress perfectly, write that perfect hook, perfect cooking hack, perfect make up, hair, skin. Its endless & utterly exhausting. We know it's simply not attainable & yet...
The opera world is all about perfection. Opera singers spend close to a decade honing their craft & learning to use their voices like a perfectly tuned instrument, able to sing every single note with the uniformed precision & accuracy of a maestro’s violin. Irrelevant that the instrument is attached to a person, with everyday worries, difficulties & yes, imperfections. Yet we plod on, working & working on imperceptible corrections that ultimately produce the perfectly balanced & nuanced sound every single time, for this is what weeds the professionals from the amateurs. Having done all of the above for over 2 decades, & now teaching the craft of singing & performance, I have begun to rethink the concept of perfection in amateur performance.
Is it really embodying the concept of learning & pushing the limits of their learning, if all a child does for 3-5 months is practice the same 3-5 songs “for a concert?" A few years ago I decided it was not so, if all I did was present 20 perfectly rehearsed, beautifully polished items tied with a gleaming bow to thunderous applause…rather, I truly believe that widening their repertoire of songs & genres & understanding of performance would widen and expand their learning. Collectively my students learn almost 80 songs, in different languages, ranging from opera to folk songs, rock, pop, classical & K pop, from which we chose about 50 for the performance. Finally we meet on the morning of the show, take a few hours to put it all together, sprinkle some pixie dust in the form of adrenaline, costumes, make up & lighting and it’s show time! No endless rehearsal, no running over into the night with parents waiting impatiently for the rehearsal to end, no battling traffic & impossible parking, no hassle, no fuss & of course no perfection… but in turn they have the thrill of performance, a freshness that comes naturally when the horse is not flogged to near death in rehearsal, learning to correct mistakes on the hoof, face real world situations that won’t always give you oodles of time to rehearse before you present, handle and face nerves, build confidence, character & self-belief that they are indeed capable of such things, and for me, most importantly, they experience the thrills, spills & joys of live performance, all the while, deepening their love for singing & performance.
Considering this is not the vocal Olympics nor an audition for Broadway, isn’t this what its all about? To quote Nike, to ‘just do it’? Isn’t this truly one of those instances where perfection - as we know it - is redundant and these imperfections are what make the whole overall experience, perfect?