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Reaching souls with the Three Angels' Messages.

15/11/2023

MAPENZI HAKUNA!
Nina jingi jakamoyo, linonipiga katiti
Kulitowa kwenye moyo, yabidi nijizatiti
Maana kwa wengi siyo, wana nyingi ati ati
Hakuna penzi la dhati, sihadaiwe na mtu!

Pendo usiliasisi, ukaliona ni fiti
Mwenye nalo yuna nuksi, huweza kukusaliti
Ni ndugu zake Yudasi, na wanazo ithibati
Hakuna penzi la dhati, sihadaiwe na mtu!

Moyo una nyingi siri, kingi kizungumkuti
Uahidiwe sayari, na nyama kwa sharubati
Kwenye ndoto utajiri, siwe mwepesi kubeti
Hakuna penzi la dhati, sihadaiwe na mtu!

Wengi wana nia zao, na njama za kukuseti
Ukishatekwa na wao, ushindwe kujithibiti
Mwisho ukapinda tao, na kujikuta maiti
Hakuna penzi la dhati, sihadaiwe na mtu!

“Kimwana umerembeka, wawaka ja kiberiti
Nakupenda ni hakika, nina nawe mikakati”
Hayo mafamba epuka, utapigwa mabaluti
Hakuna penzi la dhati, sihadaiwe na mtu!

Yapo mengine mabusu, k**a ya Iskaryoti
Alivyofanyiwa Yesu, kauzwa senti thalati
Lahitaji udurusu, penzi la kupigwa goti
Hakuna penzi la dhati, sihadaiwe na mtu!

Kwa hili fungu la saba, ndipo nakomesha beti
Penzi ni k**a msiba, ukishatendwa na switi
Moyo utakosa tiba, onyo la bwana Sereti
Hakuna penzi la dhati, sihadaiwe na mtu!

Sereti M. Nema;
Malenga wa Msituni,
Kisii Kenya.
© Jumatano 15.11.2023

14/11/2023

Teach these 40 phrases to your sons and daughters so they can be more resilient, successful, and confident in life.✍️👇

1. Where there's a will, there's a way.

2. Good manners don't cost anything.

3. Always ask. They can only say no.

4. You're not marrying one; you're marrying the whole family.

5. Find the good in everybody.

6. Don't cry before you try.

7. There are no stupid questions, only stupid answers.

8. Pretty is as pretty does.

9. Treat others as you would like to be treated.

10. You can't control what others do, only your own reactions.

11. Don't buy what you can't afford.

12. Remember that things don’t make you happy, people do.

13. You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.

14. Two wrongs don't make a right.

15. Watch what you step in.

16. Cow turds are a cattlemen's dollar signs. It all depends on how you look at it.

17. Teamwork makes the dream work.

18. Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.

19. What we think determines what happens to us, so if we want to change our lives, we need to stretch our minds.

20. Fair? The fair is two weeks in the fall.

21. One man's trash is another man's treasure.

22. The greatest day in your life is when you take total responsibility for your attitudes. That's the day you truly grow up.

23. True freedom is understanding that we have a choice in who and what we allow to have power over us.

24. You're only as old as you feel.

25. A rolling stone gathers no moss.

26. Early to bed and early to rise makes you healthy, wealthy, and wise.

27. Happiness is not by chance but by choice.

28. If you don’t like the road you’re walking, start paving another one.

29. A rising tide lifts all boats.

30. Don't judge a book by its cover.

31. You’re braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.

32. The early bird catches the worm.

33. Each day comes bearing its gifts. Untie the ribbon.

34. Expecting the world to treat you fairly because you are a good person is a little like expecting the bull not to attack you because you are a vegetarian.

35. Confession is good for the soul.

36. You can't make an omelet without breaking a few eggs.

37. The grass is greener where you water it.

38. The greatest glory in living lies not in never failing, but in rising every time we fail.

39. There is no single recipe for success. But there is one essential ingredient: Passion.

40. Never lose hope. And never underestimate the power of prayer.

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13/11/2023

ZAKAYO MTINI (SIKU YA 'KUPANDA' MITI)
Imekwenda sana mbiyo, vile sikutarajia
Siku ya upanzi leyo, kote Kenya kufukia
Menipita kazi hiyo, siji mti kuukwea
Siwezi kupanda mti, akiwa juu Zakayo!

Kwa kila mtu kapita, kodi kujikusanyia
Na wengine kiwasuta, mambo matatu kutia
Si sukari si mafuta, uchumi ukielea
Siwezi kupanda mti, akiwa juu Zakayo!

Kwa ahadi kemukemu, lipokuwa kigombea
Aliposhika hatamu, leyo juu ywapepea
Ala hata vya haramu, chini metukanyagia
Siwezi kupanda mti, akiwa juu Zakayo!

Walimsihi waneni, ashuke kutwandalia
Makasisi makuhani, nyumbanimwe kuingia
Hata Yesu Tongareni, wote hakuwasikia
Siwezi kupanda mti, akiwa juu Zakayo!

Tumegubikwa aibu, wengine kishangilia
Metwaa zetu dhahabu, mitini kakatalia
Kupanda sina sababu, kweeni mnaokwea
Siwezi kupanda mti, akiwa juu Zakayo!

Dhiki lofanya tuone, kuyuni kining'inia
Metufanya tusonone, Mola tatulipizia
Sipolipa mara nne, atalipa mara mia
Siwezi kupanda mti, akiwa juu Zakayo!

Naomba hapa kukoma, riziki kujisakia
Ipandeni michongoma, tunda mtatugawia
Ila juu mkikwama, Nema nawahurumia
Siwezi kupanda mti, akiwa juu Zakayo!

SERETI M. NEMA,
"Malenga wa Msituni,"
Kisii, KENYA
© Jumatatu 13.11.2023

11/10/2023

10 Lessons from The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

1. Be proactive. Proactive people take responsibility for their own lives and choices. They don't blame others or circumstances for their problems. Instead, they focus on what they can control and influence.

2. Begin with the end in mind. Highly effective people have a clear vision of what they want to achieve in life. They know their values and goals, and they make decisions based on what they want to create.

3. Put first things first. Highly effective people prioritize their tasks and activities based on their importance and urgency. They avoid getting sidetracked by distractions and focus on the things that matter most to them.

4. Think win-win. Highly effective people believe that everyone can win in a situation. They look for mutually beneficial solutions that meet the needs of all parties involved.

5. Seek first to understand, then to be understood. Highly effective people are good listeners. They take the time to understand other people's perspectives before sharing their own. This helps them to build stronger relationships and communicate more effectively.

6. Synergize. Synergy is the principle that the whole is greater than the sum of its parts. Highly effective people value collaboration and teamwork. They know that they can achieve more by working together with others than they can on their own.

7. Sharpen the saw. Highly effective people invest in their own personal growth and development. They take the time to learn new things, improve their skills, and take care of their physical and mental health.

8. Be principle-centered. Highly effective people base their decisions and actions on timeless principles, such as honesty, integrity, fairness, and respect. This helps them to build trust and credibility with others, and it also gives them a strong foundation for making sound decisions.

9. Be balanced. Highly effective people understand the importance of balance in their lives. They make time for their work, their relationships, their health, and their personal interests. This helps them to avoid burnout and to live more fulfilling lives.

10. Be continuous learners. Highly effective people are always learning and growing. They are curious about the world around them and they are eager to expand their knowledge and skills. This helps them to stay ahead of the curve and to be successful in a rapidly changing world.

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09/10/2023

A WISE MAN ONCE SAID

1. Don’t call someone more than twice continuously. If they don’t pick up your call, presume they have something important to attend to;

2. Return money that you have borrowed even before the person that borrowed you remember or ask for it. It shows your integrity and character. Same goes with umbrellas, pens and lunch boxes.

3. Never order the expensive dish on the menu when someone is giving you a lunch/dinner.

4. Don’t ask awkward questions like ‘Oh so you aren’t married yet?’ Or ‘Don’t you have kids’ or ‘Why didn’t you buy a house?’ Or why don't you buy a car? For God’s sake it isn’t your problem;

5. Always open the door for the person coming behind you. It doesn’t matter if it is a guy or a girl, senior or junior. You don’t grow small by treating someone well in public;

6. If you take a taxi with a friend and he/she pays now, try paying next time;

7. Respect different shades of opinions. Remember what's 6 to you will appear 9 to someone facing you. Besides, second opinion is good for an alternative;

8. Never interrupt people talking. Allow them to pour it out. As they say, hear them all and filter them all;

9. If you tease someone, and they don’t seem to enjoy it, stop it and never do it again. It encourages one to do more and it shows how appreciative you're;

10. Say “thank you” when someone is helping you.

11. Praise publicly. Criticize privately;

12. There’s almost never a reason to comment on someone’s weight. Just say, “You look fantastic.” If they want to talk about losing weight, they will;

13. When someone shows you a photo on their phone, don’t swipe left or right. You never know what’s next;

14. If a colleague tells you they have a doctors' appointment, don’t ask what it’s for, just say "I hope you’re okay". Don’t put them in the uncomfortable position of having to tell you their personal illness. If they want you to know, they'll do so without your inquisitiveness;

15. Treat the cleaner with the same respect as the CEO. Nobody is impressed at how rude you can treat someone below you but people will notice if you treat them with respect;

16. If a person is speaking directly to you, staring at your phone is rude;

17. Never give advice until you’re asked;

18. When meeting someone after a long time, unless they want to talk about it, don’t ask them their age and salary;

19. Mind your business unless anything involves you directly - just stay out of it;

20. Remove your sunglasses if you are talking to anyone in the street. It is a sign of respect. Moreso, eye contact is as important as your speech; and

21. Never talk about your riches in the midst of the poor. Similarly, don't talk about your children in the midst of the barren.

22.After reading a good message try to say "Thanks for the message".

APPRECIATION remains the easiest way of getting what you don't have....
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Thanks for Reading 📝👌

09/10/2023

A WISE MAN ONCE SAID

1. Don’t call someone more than twice continuously. If they don’t pick up your call, presume they have something important to attend to;

2. Return money that you have borrowed even before the person that borrowed you remember or ask for it. It shows your integrity and character. Same goes with umbrellas, pens and lunch boxes.

3. Never order the expensive dish on the menu when someone is giving you a lunch/dinner.

4. Don’t ask awkward questions like ‘Oh so you aren’t married yet?’ Or ‘Don’t you have kids’ or ‘Why didn’t you buy a house?’ Or why don't you buy a car? For God’s sake it isn’t your problem;

5. Always open the door for the person coming behind you. It doesn’t matter if it is a guy or a girl, senior or junior. You don’t grow small by treating someone well in public;

6. If you take a taxi with a friend and he/she pays now, try paying next time;

7. Respect different shades of opinions. Remember what's 6 to you will appear 9 to someone facing you. Besides, second opinion is good for an alternative;

8. Never interrupt people talking. Allow them to pour it out. As they say, hear them all and filter them all;

9. If you tease someone, and they don’t seem to enjoy it, stop it and never do it again. It encourages one to do more and it shows how appreciative you're;

10. Say “thank you” when someone is helping you.

11. Praise publicly. Criticize privately;

12. There’s almost never a reason to comment on someone’s weight. Just say, “You look fantastic.” If they want to talk about losing weight, they will;

13. When someone shows you a photo on their phone, don’t swipe left or right. You never know what’s next;

14. If a colleague tells you they have a doctors' appointment, don’t ask what it’s for, just say "I hope you’re okay". Don’t put them in the uncomfortable position of having to tell you their personal illness. If they want you to know, they'll do so without your inquisitiveness;

15. Treat the cleaner with the same respect as the

08/10/2023

Let us be happy with our own!
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08/10/2023

12 Interesting Lines that Will Keep You Going When Times Get Tough.

1. “Challenges are what make life interesting and overcoming them is what makes life meaningful.”—Joshua J. Marine

2. “Accept responsibility for your life. Know that it is you who will get you where you want to go, no one else.”—Les Brown

3. “The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.”—Martin Luther King, Jr.

4. “Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.”—Confucius

5. “When you come to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on.”—Franklin D. Roosevelt

6. “To be tested is good. The challenged life may be the best therapist.”—Gail Sheehy, Author

7. “When the going gets tough, the tough get going.”—Joseph Kennedy

8. “You may encounter many defeats, but you must not be defeated. In fact, it may be necessary to encounter the defeats, so you can know who you are, what you can rise from, how you can still come out of it.”—Maya Angelou

9. “The brick walls are there for a reason. The brick walls are not there to keep us out. The brick walls are there to give us a chance to show how badly we want something. Because the brick walls are there to stop the people who don’t want it badly enough. They’re there to stop the other people.” —Randy Pausch

10. Life may be hard, but resilient people are harder.

11. Mirror is your best friend, because when you cry, it never laughs.

12. But remember that real situations reveal fake friends.

STAY BLESSED🙏❤️

15/09/2023

𝐍𝐎𝐓 𝐀𝐋𝐋 𝐆𝐋𝐈𝐓𝐓𝐄𝐑𝐒 𝐓𝐇𝐀𝐓 𝐈𝐒 𝐆𝐎𝐋𝐃.... 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐒𝐀𝐌𝐄 𝐖𝐎𝐑𝐋𝐃

A dying old man said to his doctor while on the sick bed " Doctor, don’t worry. I know I am going to die.I didn’t want to come here but they brought me here.

Please don’t worry about me, look at my hair, they are gone. I am so old but you are so young. I have learnt a lot from life, if you don’t mind I will tell you some of them before I die.

When I was 4 years, I use to think the world is about me. When I turned 14, I wanted to rule the world. I thought I would be the greatest man that ever lived. When I was 21, I wanted to be the richest man, when I was 25, I wanted to find love, when I was 40, I wanted to be helpful to everyone. Now that I am here, I want to die. You see, I wanted so many things at so many times. Most importantly, I wanted to be happy. I thought the best way to be happy is to listen to others.

When I wanted to enter the University, I wanted to study Zoology but everyone said I should study Engineering that I will be a great Engineer. So I listened to them. I had no one to pay my fees, I had to work and also pay my fees. In my third year, I couldn’t cope with my studies, I had to drop. When I dropped, the same people told me "you should have studied Zoology"!

When I turned 28, everyone said I should marry. That I needed a wife. So I listened to them, I got married. 6 years into the marriage, I caught my wife sleeping with my neighbour. I asked her why and she slapped me. I was angry and didn’t say anything. The next day I returned from work, she had run away with my children, now I am dying a lonely man.

At 40, I got a huge contract. My name was in the news. The next day, all my friends and families were at my house, everyone had a serious problem. Within one week, I spent all the money on them with the promise that they will pay back. I could not complete the contract because they refused to return the money as promised. So I was sent to jail for 6 years.

And the story continues.....

14/09/2023

MARRIAGE IS NOT A JOKE

"Your wife is dead. Come to your house quick" Onyonka told Mulei over the phone.

"Dead?! What happened? How did she die?" Mulei frantically asked.

"The doctor says depression or stress. The doctor and police are here in your house. Come quick" Onyonka spoke further and hanged up the call.

Mulei was on a date with another woman. Minutes later, he had been laughing and charming that woman. But on receiving that phone call from Onyonka of his wife's death, his face changed.

Onyonka is his close friend.

Mulei got up from the restaurant and left the woman.

"What's wrong?" Asked the woman.

"I can't talk" Mulei left saying.

Mulei got in his car and started driving his car in a hurry.

As Mulei drove off, he remembered how him and his wife went to the showroom to buy that same car he was driving. As he turned his steering wheel, he remembered how he used to tease his wife she drives so slowly when she drove. Those were the good days in their marriage.

"My wife is dead! My wife is dead! God.." He broke down as he drove.

He remembered the day of their wedding. The vows they made. As he turned the steering wheel, he looked on his finger and didn't see his wedding ring. The wedding ring he removed to lie to other women he is single.

Mulei remembered how he would heartlessly tell his wife that he has the right to have fun. How he would break his wife's heart and not care.

"My wife is dead! My wife is dead! Why God why?" He sought for an answer.

The answer came to him. He remembered what Onyonka had told him. That his wife probably died of stress and depression. In that case, Mulei killed her.

"I killed my own wife. God I am sorry..." He pleaded as he drove even faster.

Mulei remembered how things got ugly in his marriage. How love left their home. How they started arguing. The four times he has slapped her. The monster he was to his wife and children. He felt he needed to stamp his authority in his house, then that need turned into disrespect to his wife, then disrespect turned into abuse, then abuse turned into ulcers.

She developed ulcers because of the pain he caused her. Her health deteriorated but he didn't care, he was too proud to apologize, he despised her as he chased after the admiration from other women. He had turned from a loving husband into a heartless stranger to her. She is dead.

As he switched lanes and turned corners, he thought to himself how her ulcers must have turned into stress then into depression. When he went to ask for her hand in marriage, she was beautiful, loving and full of life; only for him to marry her, ruin her, break her and kill her.

How did she die? He wouldn't know because he hasn't been at his home for a week. She kept sending him messages, pleading, begging but her cries fell on deaf years. She was such a nag, but he turned her into a nag. She was just a nagging woman desperate to save her marriage. Now she is dead.

"What will I do with our four children?" He thought to himself. The four children he has been neglecting because he has been busy having fun. He got to appreciate the work his wife has been doing raising the children. Who will raise his children? The women he has been fooling around with can't raise his children, they are not marriage material. Marriage material women don't break another woman's marriage.

What will the parents of his dead wife think? What will people think? What does God think? This is how it ends? A marriage comes to this? A dead wife?

Mulei parked his car. Got out of his car. Ran to his house.

He opened the gate. Opened the door. He found Onyonka, his close friend standing in the corridor of his house.

"What happened? She can't be dead. She can't be dead. What will I do?" Mulei said restless.

Onyonka hugged Mulei.

"Are you OK?" Onyonka asked.

"How can I be OK? My wife is dead. The mother of my kids is dead? Where is her body?" Mulei said losing breath.

"In the living room" Onyonka answered.

Mulei rushed to the living room.

Surprise.

He saw his wife alive. Sitting on the sofa with Onyonka's wife next to her.

"You're not dead?!" Mulei said in shock.

"No she isn't. But if you both continue like this she might. Your wife hasn't been well at all. She has been trying to reach you but you have ignored her. The news of her death made you run to her. If only you were running to her for life and not death" said Onyonka.

Mulei knelt down before his wife and touched her face. At first she resisted.

"I hope the scary journey coming home thinking she is dead will remind you of what is important. Don't wait until it's too late to do what is right. You have a second chance" said Onyonka's wife.

Mulei held his wife's hand.

"Marriage is not a joke you two. Stop playing games with lives. Tomorrow is not guaranteed" added Onyonka's wife.

"You two have a problem. You've become comfortable hurting each other and hurting people. Tomorrow may never be there for you to say sorry" said Onyonka.

"And when you meet your Heavenly Father, when you meet God. Mulei, one of the things God will ask you is how did you treat your wife? She is God's daughter" spoke Onyonka's wife.

"And Mrs. Mulei God will ask you about how you treated your husband. You have the same problem. You go around making enemies, breaking relationships, hurting people and walking away. You cry about your husband disrespecting you, yet you disrespect your mother. Repeatedly you have insulted my wife for no reason despite all she has been through with you. This don't care attitude will make you regret one day. One day your mom will die, so will my wife, so will all of us. It is not wishing for death, it is the reality. When people are alive love them. Love them" said Onyonka.

Mrs. Mulei turned to Mrs. Onyonka and said "I am sorry. Forgive me. Thank you for planning this idea of my fake death to wake up my husband. I love him but got tired of his hurt. You have been a true friend"

Mrs. Onyonka hugged Mrs. Mulei.

"You two need to agree. Will you remain married and act like married couples, or will you break your marriage off for good? All or nothing, either you are fully in or not.

Mulei hugged his wife tightly saying, "I am sorry. I don't want to lose you. Today I have seen my family fall apart. I was blind but now I see. Don't die on me please. I will do better"

"You have alot of ulcers to heal. You have hurt me so much but I still love you, our children love you. I am sorry for all the wrongs I have done to you too in anger and making things complicated. We vowed till death do us part. It will not be easy, but our marriage is worth it. We both messed up. We both can heal this family" said Mulei's wife.

Mulei and the wife hugged.

"My wife and I will leave now, and let you two do what married couples do best" said Mr. Onyonka.

Love your spouse, honour your parents, bless your children, cherish your friends; while they are still alive.

Before it is too late.