27/01/2026
I started The Better Half, ten years ago & over the years, I’ve shared many pieces of art and craft here. Each one holds a story and matters to me, but what I’m sharing today is different, as this is closest to my heart.
The most beautiful part being it isn’t created by me, but by my best.
Presenting this one of a kind engagement tray designed by Y.
Ever since Y was about 4.5 years old, Lego found its way into his life and there has been no looking back since. He lives and breathes Lego.
While all of us were busy preparing for the wedding, Y kept asking-What can I do? In a moment of spontaneity, his Maasi asked if he can make a Lego engagement tray.
And that was all it took.
He spoke to his Maasi a couple of times, shared his ideas, and then quietly went about digging through old pieces, imagining, building, breaking and building again. He spent hours remaking it till it felt right to him.
What you see here is entirely his creation without any adult supervision.
If you look closely, you’ll see an ocean & coconut trees inspired by the beach venue, some wildlife as his Maasi loves it, a couple perfectly positioned to hold the rings & perched at the top an eagle from the Harry Potter for his Potterhead Maasi.
The tray turned heads at the event and became one of the highlights of the wedding.
When Y was younger, I enrolled him in art classes, believing that art gives expression. He was good at it but uninterested and quit after a few months. I remember feeling heartbroken.
I kept telling O how much I wanted him to find art as his way of expression & how sad I felt that he didn’t.
One day, O nudged me-why I believed art is only through colours and brushes. Why couldn’t I see creativity in the way Y mixed, matched, imagined & built with Lego?
This perspective changed the way I looked at art itself not only for Y.
And today, as I look at this Lego tray, I realise-this is the expression I was hoping for all along.
An expression of love for his Maasi.
An expression of thoughtfulness.
An expression of creating something one-of-a-kind for a BIG moment.
Sometimes, art doesn’t look the way we expect it to.
Sometimes, it quietly builds itself-brick by brick.