ROMEO

22/09/2021

1947 ലെ പരമാധികാരവും വിഭജനവും സംബന്ധിച്ച ലേഖനം

ഇന്ത്യയുടെ വിഭജനം എല്ലാ ഇന്ത്യക്കാർക്കും, പ്രത്യേകിച്ച് ഹിന്ദുക്കൾക്കും മുസ്ലീങ്ങൾക്കും ഇടയിൽ വളരെയധികം പ്രാധാന്യം നൽകുന്നു. ഈ സംഭവം ഇന്ത്യയുടെ വിഭജനത്തിലേക്ക് നയിക്കുകയും രണ്ട് വ്യത്യസ്ത പരമാധികാര രാജ്യങ്ങൾ സൃഷ്ടിക്കുകയും ചെയ്തു: ഇന്ത്യയും പാകിസ്ഥാനും. വിഭജനത്തിന് മുമ്പ് ബ്രിട്ടീഷ് സാമ്രാജ്യം ഇന്ത്യ ഭരിച്ചിരുന്നു. എല്ലാ മതങ്ങളും പരിഗണിക്കാതെ എല്ലാവരും ഒരുമിച്ച് ജീവിച്ചു.

ഇന്ത്യൻ വിഭജനം നടന്നത് 1947 ഓഗസ്റ്റിലാണ്. 1900 -ൽ ഇന്ത്യൻ മുസ്ലീം ആവശ്യങ്ങളും അവകാശങ്ങളും പ്രതിനിധീകരിക്കാൻ ഇന്ത്യൻ നാഷണൽ കോൺഗ്രസ് വിസമ്മതിച്ചതോടെയാണ് ഹിന്ദുവും മുസ്ലീങ്ങളും തമ്മിലുള്ള വിഭജനത്തിന്റെയും സംഘർഷത്തിന്റെയും കാരണം ആരംഭിച്ചത്.

ബ്രിട്ടീഷ് ഭരണകാലത്ത്, ഹിന്ദുക്കൾ മുസ്ലീം ജനസംഖ്യയിൽ കൂടുതൽ പ്രാധാന്യമുള്ള ഭാഗമായിരുന്നു, ഇത് തൊഴിലുകൾ, വിദ്യാഭ്യാസം, ബിസിനസ്സ് എന്നിവ അടിസ്ഥാനമാക്കി മുസ്ലീങ്ങളെക്കാൾ ബ്രിട്ടീഷ് മേധാവികളെ ഹിന്ദുക്കളോട് ചായ്വുള്ളവരാക്കി.

എന്നിരുന്നാലും, ഹിന്ദുക്കളുമായി താരതമ്യം ചെയ്യുമ്പോൾ മുസ്ലീങ്ങൾക്ക് കുറഞ്ഞ തൊഴിലവസരങ്ങളും ശമ്പള നിരക്കുകളും നൽകി. ബ്രിട്ടീഷുകാരും ഹിന്ദുക്കളും നിയന്ത്രിക്കുമെന്ന് മുസ്ലീങ്ങൾ ഭയപ്പെട്ടു, അതിനാൽ അവരുടെ അവകാശങ്ങളും ആവശ്യങ്ങളും ഉറപ്പുവരുത്തുന്ന ഒരു പ്രത്യയശാസ്ത്ര ഗ്രൂപ്പിനെ രൂപപ്പെടുത്താൻ അവർ തീരുമാനിച്ചു.

തുടർന്ന്, 1906 ൽ മുഹമ്മദലി ജിന്ന എന്ന ശ്രദ്ധേയനായ പയനിയർ നയിച്ച ഓൾ ഇന്ത്യ മുസ്ലീം ലീഗ് രൂപീകരിച്ചു. മുസ്ലീങ്ങളും ഹിന്ദുക്കളും സ്വതന്ത്രരാണെന്നും ഒരു രാജ്യത്ത് ജീവിക്കാൻ കഴിയില്ലെന്നും അദ്ദേഹം വിശ്വസിച്ചു, ഹിന്ദു പാർട്ടി നേതാവ് ഗാന്ധി ആ ചിന്തയെ പരിമിതപ്പെടുത്തി.

മുഹമ്മദലി ജിന്ന മുസ്ലീങ്ങൾക്കായി മറ്റൊരു രാഷ്ട്രത്തിനായി പോരാടി. രണ്ടാം ലോകമഹായുദ്ധത്തിൽ ബ്രിട്ടീഷുകാർ സംഭാവന നൽകുകയും ഇന്ത്യയ്ക്ക് സ്വാതന്ത്ര്യം നൽകുകയും ചെയ്ത ശേഷം ഇന്ത്യയെ ശൂന്യമാക്കാൻ തീരുമാനിച്ചപ്പോൾ അദ്ദേഹത്തിന്റെ ലക്ഷ്യം ഒടുവിൽ പൂർത്തീകരിക്കപ്പെട്ടു. 1947 ആഗസ്റ്റിൽ രണ്ട് സ്വതന്ത്ര രാഷ്ട്രങ്ങൾ മുസ്ലീങ്ങൾക്ക് വേണ്ടി പാകിസ്താനും ഹിന്ദുക്കൾക്ക് വേണ്ടി ഇന്ത്യയും പ്രത്യക്ഷപ്പെട്ടു.

അസാധാരണവും ദുഖിതവുമായ പയനിയർ അനുഭവത്തിന്റെ പശ്ചാത്തലത്തിൽ സങ്കീർണ്ണമായ സാമൂഹിക സാമ്പത്തിക ഘടകങ്ങളുടെയും രാഷ്ട്രീയ അസൗകര്യങ്ങളുടെയും മിശ്രിതം വിഭജനത്തിന്റെയും സ്വാതന്ത്ര്യത്തിന്റെയും ഒരേസമയം ഉയർച്ചയ്ക്ക് ഒരു സെറ്റ് നൽകി.

ഇന്ത്യ തിടുക്കത്തിൽ വിഭജിക്കപ്പെട്ടു; ഇത് ഇന്ത്യൻ ജനതയ്ക്ക് വലിയ പ്രശ്നങ്ങളുണ്ടാക്കി, കമ്മീഷൻ ക്രമേണ ജാഗ്രത പുലർത്തിയിരുന്നുവെങ്കിൽ, വിഭജനം സുഗമമായ നടപടിക്രമമായിരുന്നു. ഉദാഹരണത്തിന്, അതിർത്തി വരച്ച സംഭവങ്ങൾ ഉണ്ടായിരുന്നു, അവിടെ ഇന്ത്യയുടെ ഒരു പട്ടണവും പാകിസ്ഥാനിൽ ചിലതും അവശേഷിക്കുന്നു.

പ്രാന്തപ്രദേശത്തിന്റെ അതിരുകൾ വരയ്ക്കുന്നതിനുള്ള വഴിയിലേക്ക് നടപ്പാക്കൽ തിടുക്കത്തിൽ കൊണ്ടുപോയി. 1947 ഓഗസ്റ്റ് 16 ന്, വൈകുന്നേരം 5:00 മണിക്ക്, 17 -ാം തീയതി റാഡ്ക്ലിഫ് അവാർഡ് വിതരണം ചെയ്യുന്നതിന് മുമ്പ് ഇന്ത്യൻ, പാക്കിസ്ഥാൻ പ്രതിനിധികൾക്ക് രണ്ട് മണിക്കൂർ പകർപ്പുകൾ ആലോചിച്ചു.

സാമ്പത്തിക കലാപങ്ങളും ലോകമെമ്പാടുമുള്ള സാഹചര്യങ്ങളും പോലുള്ള പ്രശ്നങ്ങളാൽ തിടുക്കത്തിലുള്ള വിഭജനത്തിനുള്ള ബ്രിട്ടീഷ് ശ്രമങ്ങൾ കൊണ്ടുവന്നു. സാമ്പത്തിക സാഹചര്യം ബ്രിട്ടൻ പ്രതിദിനം 70 മില്യൺ പൗണ്ട് ഉയർന്ന് 3 ബില്യൺ പൗണ്ടിന് ഇന്ത്യയോട് കടപ്പെട്ടിരുന്നു. ഈ ഘട്ടത്തിൽ അവർ ഇന്ത്യയുമായുള്ള ബന്ധം പ്രയോജനപ്പെടുത്തി. ഇന്ത്യയെ നിലനിർത്താൻ അവർ പ്രതീക്ഷിക്കുന്ന പണത്തിന്റെ ഒരു പ്രധാന ഭാഗം ബ്രിട്ടനെ വീട്ടിൽ മെച്ചപ്പെടുത്തുന്നതിന് ചെലവഴിച്ചു.

ഇന്ത്യയും പാകിസ്ഥാനും വിഭജന സമയത്ത്, ഹൈദരാബാദ്, ബംഗാൾ, സിന്ധ്, ജെ & കെ, പഞ്ചാബ് തുടങ്ങിയ സ്ഥലങ്ങളിൽ കലാപം പൊട്ടിപ്പുറപ്പെട്ടു. ഹിന്ദുക്കളെയും സിഖുകാരെയും ഭീഷണിപ്പെടുത്തുകയും ഉടൻ തന്നെ പാകിസ്താൻ വിടാൻ നിർബന്ധിക്കുകയും ചെയ്തു. അവരുടെ സ്വത്തും വീടുകളും പിടിച്ചെടുത്തു. അതുപോലെ, വളരെക്കാലം നീണ്ടുനിന്ന വിഭജന സമയത്ത് ഇരു സമുദായങ്ങളും വിദ്വേഷവും അക്രമവും നേരിട്ടു.

09/09/2021

5 Bollywood Celebrities whose interfaith marriages prove that love is all that matters strikes back

It's time we acknowledge that affection is the greatest religion and there's nothing above it. Also, it's not just films and promotions that show between confidence relationships yet it's a genuine article and individuals who are infatuated get it going as nothing else matters.
Along these lines, here is a rundown of our #1 Bollywood big names whose interfaith relationships demonstrate that affection is the only thing that is important.
1-Kareena Kapoor Khan and Saif Ali Khan
Saif Ali Khan is the Nawab of Pataudi and Kareena Kapoor is a bad-to-the-bone Punjabi with an entire line of entertainers in her family. The two of them experienced passionate feelings for while they were going for their film Tashan and got hitched in the year 2012.
Presently, they as of now have an infant kid together, Taimur, and they are anticipating their subsequent youngster too.
2-Aamir Khan and Kiran Rao
Aamir Khan got hitched to Kiran Rao in 2005. Aamir is a Muslim and Kiran has a place with the Royal group of J Rameshwar Rao who was the Raja of Wanaparthy, Mahbubnagar area in Telanaga. Both presently have a nine-year-old child together who is named Azad Rao Khan.
3-Shah Rukh Khan and Gauri Chibber
This is one of the most acclaimed romantic tales in Bollywood. SRK went gaga for Gauri who originates from a Hindu Brahmin family. SRK wedded her even before he entered Bollywood and the two had got hitched in 1991. They currently have a cheerful family together!
4-Ratna Pathak Shah and Naseeruddin Shah
After detachment with his first spouse, Ratna and Naseer met each other in the year 1975 where they were both acting in Satyadev Dubey's play, Sambhog Se Sanyas Tak. They got hitched in 1982 and have been joyfully hitched from that point forward. They additionally have two children together named Imaad and Vivaan.
5-Soha Ali Khan and Kunal Kemmu
The couple got married in 2015 of every a private function with just close relatives and companions. They had been seeing someone numerous years and now they have a three-year old child young lady, Inaaya.

30/10/2020

30/10/2020

Envy in friendship strengthens the relationship

Jealousy helps maintain friendships - The feeling of jealousy is generally considered to be the reason for breaking up the relationship, but this finding found that the feeling of jealousy helps maintain friendship.

Friends are not just for fun - The researcher says that friends are not just for fun. Friends are very important to us. The researcher has called friends an important resource. He said that in the current situation (Corona period) it is very important to have friends. Friends are fully supportive in times of conflict and also help as much as possible when needed.

Friendships have been explored at Arizona State University, Oklahoma State University and Hamilton College. Research on friendship in these places has shown that jealousy strengthens friendships between friends.

Friendship is very important in life. The bond of friendship is very strong. But often jealousy seems to come in friendships. One friend seems to hate another friend. Hate or jealousy are more likely to cause a relationship to break up, but a research shows that jealousy in a friendship strengthens the relationship. Learn about this discovery. The findings are published in the recent issue of the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology. According to this discovery the spirit of jealousy was associated with the value of friendship and was also motivated by practice.

29/10/2020

Anyone Who Doesn't Love The Real You Is Not Meant For You
I'll see you. You can't see me. But you see me. I'll see you. I can see your heart big. Do not conceal it to fit in this shallow environment. Open up, never afraid of being you. The real one. That's the best you need to know and the only one you need. Some are not going to like it they are not right for you.

Some are going to love it-these are your people. Someone who does not love the real you is not intended for you. Keep giving everything, to everybody. Just like the sun, shine bright. I see you. I see you're not fitting in. How could you stand out when you were born? I see you're different. But you're going to find your place. I see you. And what a blessing that is. Don't just settle for those who dim your light. Wait for the ones that will light you up. Wait for the spark and await the magic. If you are patient and true to yourself, the right people will turn up in your life.

I'll see you. Your wonderful dreams I see. Continue to chase them – keep fighting for them, but never lose sight of what counts. You can have all of this and you deserve all of it. You can have that passion, and that harmony. Whatever it takes you can do by still doing what is right. You should do what's best for you while doing the right thing for others. I'll see you. If you feel like giving up. Don't lose hope. Enjoy the ride. Every single small step along the way. Every single person, every moment. Learn from the lessons. Notice the beatitudes. You deserve all of that and more.

You deserve the losses, the comparison, the development, and the blessings because they all form part of life's magic. I'll see you. I see the pain. Know that the pain is going to pass, know it was sent to make you stronger. When you want to use it, anything is a GIFT. Every single lesson is a blessing. I'll see you. I know you are Love-filled. Give that love wherever you possibly can. LEAD with heart. I know you've got a big one. And this world needs more like you. Either way, they say: Be you. It's the real you. The real you. You are the best.

What they think: You know what's Okay. Do what's Okay. Stand For What's OK. Live for that which is correct. Whatever their opinion: go your own way. Tell the truth. Follow on with the truth. LIVE thy reality. Create your itinerary. Tell the truth. Follow on with the truth. LIVE in reality.

28/10/2020

13/06/2020

How to make any girl laugh?
The doorway to a girl's heart is to make her laugh - unknown.

When you make a girl laugh she forgets all her problems and wants to spend more time with you. Additionally, you look very relaxed, cool and chill in her eyes. And who doesn't want a guy with sense of humour? Let's dive into the real part.

Firstly, You need to start observing the environment around you and find things that you can convert into funny. One thing i noticed in girls are they are not too much logical as we are. So, put aside your "too much logical brain" aside.

Ask this question as often as necessary "What is funny about this?" and your brain comes up with funny answers. At first, you may not get any responses, but keep practising.

When she asks you something like had your dinner, what are you doing tomorrow just look into her eyes for 3 seconds and put your tongue out. I just gave you one more example from my own laughing library. Funny faces makes her laugh.

Some tips for you:

1. Watch standup comedy shows and note down what is funny about it? may be it is their tone or their facial reaction.

2. You can share funny things that happened in your life or from someone else's life.

3. Talk to her like her mom, dad or herself. Just imitate.

4. Ask her hypothetical questions like

How does fish take oxygen without an oxygen mask?
If you had to eat pig or pig tail, what would you choose and why?
If you can make her anyone disappear from this world, whom would you do and why?

Just follow the above tips and you are on your way to make her laugh anytime.

29/05/2020

5 Signs That Show Its an End To Your Romantic Relationship

Funny as it may sound, sometimes, we are so invested in a relationship that we fail to realize that we need to move on from a relationship until it becomes evident. We tend to linger on despite the various tell-tale signs. Sometimes, we so badly wish for things to work out that we postpone making the move in the hope that this time round things will be different.

It isn’t until we hit a dead end from all directions that we are jolted with reality that it is finally time to let go.

There are some rather evident signs that tell you that it is time to move on from your relationship. Here are 5 signs which apply equally to friendships and romantic relationships:

* When past memories are more charming and engaging than the present

Do you find it difficult to focus on your current conversations? Do you feel the need to tap to your past experiences and memories to feel good about being with the other person? It is probably time to leave the relationship behind

It is important to remember that your relationship is in the now and the things you talk about or do together in the now should be able to invoke happiness. If you feel the need to relate to the happy memories from the past, you are creating your reality rather than truly facing or living it.

* When being in the relationship brings you more pain than joy

Being in a relationship should make your life better and happier. While all relationships start on a high note, if sufficient efforts are not put in from both sides, the magic seems to fizzle out with time. If you find yourself in tear every now and again, if being with the other person is becoming increasingly frustrating and if you feel unhappy more than not, it might be time to move on.

* When the other person expects you to change

If the other person expects you to change, unless it is for your betterment and well-being, it is a sign that you should let go. If it is about losing weight or a bad habit, it can add value to your life and is a factor which helps both of you grow together. However, if it is motivated by superficial reasons, you are better offw without the change. The issue here is not the expectation behind such changes. Such expectations are like a bottomless pit, the further down the hole you go, the deeper the home would get.

* When you expect the other person to change

This applies to you almost as much as it applies to the other person, if not more. Staying on in a relationship with the expectation that the other person will change is a wrong reason. It is always black and white, you either accept the person for who

he/she really is or you move on. It is even more important to be aware of this sign because even if the other person changes something to fit into your expectations, you will always find something else that you would want to change.

* When you feel the need to continuously justify the other person’s actions to yourself

This is probably something that all of us a guilty of doing, yet, we take too much time to realize. Now read this slowly and carefully… There comes a time in your relationship where even though a certain act or a certain situation for which the other person is responsible causes you discomfort, you try to rationalise it in your head to make yourself feel better.

The nature of this self-explanation can keep on changing since our creative minds are capable of cooking up as many reasons as

may be required. However, the longer you continue doing it, your relationships becomes more of something that you have built out of your rationalizations and false assurances rather than the reality.

14/05/2020

Friendship is very important, take good care of it.

Friendship means a sweet relationship between two beings, it is not necessary that both should be humans. Sometimes a human is in friendship with animals, birds, or any other creature. It is a very loving relationship, there is no selfishness, no jealousy, no competition, and it is maintained even in the worst of circumstances.

In every difficult time, always give these friends without any selfishness, because they are made only for this reason.

It is completely different from the relationships of lovers, because there is some sense of selfishness or fear in love, but there is clarity and trust in friendship. Its biggest feature is that it never gets old. It is often seen that very loving people become bored with each other after a long time, but their friendship is always evergreen. Friendship cannot be associated with anything else. There is also a difference between relationship and friendship. Relationship has to be alert to maintain maintenance but friendship is careless and free.

You must also have some such friend and it is also important to have such friends in life.

Some main things that are a sign of good friendship or that happen in it.

1. Because of this, there is no effect on any other relationships, but the rest of the relationships are also strong.

2. It is open and clear, so do not hesitate to give or take help in any problem.

3. It is open and clear, so do not hesitate to give or take help in any problem.

4. This kind of friendship gives courage and motivation in life.

5. There is no risk of breaking it and no one can break it, because there is no scope for it to break.

6. There are no principles in it and no rules are there, there is fun and enjoyment in it.

7. It can also be a group, which also creates a good society.

8. A good friendship never lets life get boring, but always arouses enthusiasm and confidence.

9. It is true that in the era of social media, this kind of friendship has become important but still friendship is friendship.

10. A good friendship is a gift given by God, and whoever gets it, his life is filled with happiness.

Sometimes we do not recognize such friends, but such friends are definitely available to everyone. But you can get a good friend only if you can become a good friend yourself. If you are good then the whole world is full of good friends. You too should make such friends in your life, who will help you to be prosperous and happy in health, wealth, family and society, and spend your life in a new way.

Statements made for friendship of some great philosophers

"Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another,

'what you to? I thought i was the only one."

- C.S. Lewis

"True friendship comes when the silence between two people is comfortable."

-David Tyson

There is not a word yet for old friends who've just met."

Jim Henson

"Don't make friends who are comfortable to be with.

Make friends who will force you to lever yourself up."

-Thomas J. Watson

14/05/2020

Know About Benefits And Effect Of 'Physical Touch'

In an increasingly digitized world where we text more and meet face-to-face less, it is important to remember the physical and mental benefits of human touch. Consensual, positive physical contact improves our well-being.

Our skin is often the starting point for how we perceive situations and interact with one another. Researchers have found that people can detect certain emotions, like love, anger, gratitude and disgust from touch. Regular positive touch has been shown to reduce aggression and increase pro-social behavior. It also helps us form and maintain emotional bonds in relationships.

Touch As Team Builder

Touch, or tactile communication can help us build trust and cooperation. One study even found that professional basketball players and teams who had more physical interaction early in the season like high fives and team huddles, performed better in later games.

Hug It Out

Hugging is a sign of support that can reduce stress. They can also help deter inner turmoil after conflict. One study showed that people who received a hug on a day when a conflict had taken place were found to be in better moods afterwards. Hugs have also been shown to reduce the likelihood of catching a common cold due to their stress-buffering properties.

A Warm Embrace

Warm contact between partners, like holding hands or cuddling, can contribute to better cardiovascular health and can lower one's reactivity to stress. This is because that positive physical sign of support slows your heart rate, decreases the stress hormone cortisol and lowers your blood pressure. Couples can even sync their heart rates and brain waves just by touching.

Showing Your Support

Support in the form of holding a partners hand when they're experiencing physical pain may be beneficial for both the recipient and the giver. Pain is actually diminished for the affected partner when touched. This contact can also help people with low self-esteem to eliminate self doubt.

An Increased Sense Of Feeling

Today, work is being done to create sensory-enabled prosthetic's so that amputees can get the same health benefits from touch. Psychological well-being has been shown to increase for those who used such prosthetic's.

Other researchers are also working on developing electronic skin technology that can feel hard surfaces, soft fabrics or sensations like heat.

10/05/2020

A true friend can slap you even for your slightest mistake

Friendship is a bond that works on emotions. Lucky are those who have true friends. A true friend wants his or her friend to be applauded every where. The heart of a true friend always beats for his or her friend. He is happy in his friend's happiness and sad if his friend is not happy. He is never indifferent. His emotions are tightly attached to you.

He may get hurted over little things as he keeps high expectations from you. But this change in his temperament is temporary as he loves you very much. You should not be surprised if he slaps you on your slightest mistake. It is again because he loves you. If he does this, be hundred percent sure that he has done this only for your betterment. He can't bear the breaking of his expectations.

I am saying you this from my personal experience. Once, when in teenage, I was explaining my friend as if I have done a heroic work how I consumed (smoked) a cigarette. The same moment I got the severest slap and there were stars. He told me then and there that he has always praised me and keeps giving my examples everywhere and now I had made him ashamed in his own eyes. First, I rubbed my cheeks and then, promised him that i would never touch this cheep thing again and the promise was kept. So, a true friend will never let you go into the darkness.

A true friend is one whom you trust more than any one and he too trusts you in the same spirit. This bond is heavenly and works only when if there is a great mutual understanding. Those who posses a friend's heart have been the truest persons in every age.