27/08/2026
For the first time, I stood up and told Poppy's story.
For a long time, talking about Poppy was something I completely avoided.
As years passed, I could sometimes tell people a couple of basic facts about her. I could say her name. I could talk about Poppy’s Play Patch and what we're trying to achieve.
I was recently asked if I would tell Poppy's story to a Men's Breakfast group, so over the last month I've actually sat down and written everything down on paper. I've gone back through everything I remembered and tried to shape it so it was suitable to present, knowing that eventually I'd have to stand in front of a room full of people and tell Poppy's story.
Life before Poppy. Finding out we were having Poppy. Her birth. The hospitals. The diagnosis. Bringing her home for those short few days. The few highs, and many more lows. The incredible eight and a half months we had with her.
Losing her.
And then everything that came afterwards.
This week, for the first time in my life, I stood up and talked about all of it.
It wasn't pretty. It wasn't flawless. But I made it through.
Preparing for it meant going through old photographs, speaking to Vanessa about things I'd forgotten and revisiting memories I'd spent years trying not to think about.
After all these years, I thought not talking about it was helping me. But the reality is, I was forgetting some of the small milestones we had. So as hard as this was, it felt needed.
I was absolutely dreading parts of it. I knew saying the words would bring back all those memories at a time where I needed to remain composed.
I couldn't even practise talking it through at all before the day.
Yet, a part of me felt excited.
I felt proud to finally be at a point where Poppy's story is finally being told.
People deserve to know her story.
I'm so glad I did it.
Over the last year, Poppy’s Play Patch has somehow helped me become more comfortable talking about Poppy. What started as a little idea to do something positive in her memory has given me a reason to say her name more, share her story and talk about Smith Lemli Opitz Syndrome.
We've also been able to share other children's stories as a result, and work alongside other children's charities and causes.
Standing there telling her story felt like another really important step.
There were definitely some difficult moments. There were some laughs too. And yes, I needed the tissues.
But more than anything, I was incredibly proud to stand there and talk about my daughter, and what we've been able to achieve in her name.
Hopefully, this was the first of many.
In fact, we've already got another, slightly shorter, talk coming up in two weeks' time.
Poppy Faye Simpson 🌸
January 2013 – September 2013
The reason behind Poppy’s Play Patch. ❤️
David Keith Simpson Rebecca Davis