14/06/2026
I’m still trying to come to terms with the passing of Dee Palmer.
We spoke often – usually about this time on a Sunday – and I’m really going to miss those chats.
Always charming, eloquent and bright as a button until the very end, despite suffering various health issues of late. She had a wonderful, long life, well lived, and did not fear death; we joked, often, about our possibly imminent demise, comparing our various ailments.
The first time we met, many years ago, was at her house in Godalming, and it was a tremendous honour when, after chatting for an hour or two, she sat at her grand piano and played her beautiful ‘Elegy’, a piece she had written for her father. That moment will live with me forever. The second time was at her house in Brighton, when she revealed to the world that she had undergone gender reassignment. It was an amazing and quite emotional interview, sadly some months later to be picked up by The Sun (or similar) for one of their sensationalist exposes.
Dee leaves an amazing legacy, from her work with Jethro Tull, major orchestras from around the world, and even, back in the day, Max Bygraves! But there could and should have been more…
Dee had been writing a book, and had recently sent me the opening few pages; such an incredible life would have made for an incredible book, but I guess that remains unfinished.
Also, many of you know that we had been working, for years, on finally recording The Waters Edge, an orchestral suite written by Dee with Ian Anderson and Martin Barre, which was performed a few times but never recorded. Ian Anderson was going to play the flute, and the orchestra and recording studio had been booked at least three times but subsequently cancelled due to ill health. Production costs continued to rise with each delay, but it looked like it might finally happen this year. Ironically, the last time we discussed it we agreed that “We need to get this done before one of us snuffs it”. Well, she beat me to it.
I can, at least, look back with pride in getting her Tallis album released a few years ago, some 40+ years after it was recorded. I know she was, quite rightly, very pleased with that.
I’ve lost a good friend, the world has lost a musical genius. RIP Dee.
From the album Stormwatch , the composer is David Palmer