01/05/2026
Death is unkind, expensive and with a litany of well-meaning officialdom robs the most bereaved of their time to grieve – and all just when we were regathering ourselves after 2025’s insults. Many of our challenges lie ahead, Alice, Penny, Leonie and in my own endeavour, we will honour Godfrey, his music, art and spirit, he/we/they/you will live on, we will regroup, renew, meet and share, collect and publish etc.
The Loss of Godfrey
A Reflection on Generosity, Bureaucracy, and Giving
Godfrey has gone, and now the light is dimmed,
Each moment taken, spent in queues and forms—
The well-meaning faces, but pockets primed,
For fees and stamps and endless office norms.
He gave away what little he could spare,
Not for himself, but for our hope and cheer,
His meagre purse emptied with tender care,
Investments made in kindness year by year.
Now Alice and Leonie are left alone,
Carrying the silence his absence has grown,
The world now seems less gentle, less inspired,
As bureaucracy rules where warmth once bloomed.
We mourn his passing; hearts by grief acquired,
And count the ways his absence leaves us doomed.
Yet in memory of what Godfrey bestowed—
Generosity, love, and dignity owed—
We’ll try to set up a JustGiving fund, so those
Who wish to honour him may donate, even just one pound.
For in the shadow of officialdom's reign,
His memory shines, steadfast against the strain.
Tomorrow, I will post Leonie's own perspective on bereavement