15/04/2024
Life isn't Perfect
Life isn't perfect but is anything really perfect? I'm not content with all aspects of what my life is, there are pains as constant as there are joys and yet, the good moments bring more joy than they ever have before in my life so for that alone I'm content with where it's going and where it's got to so far...
After all are we ever truly content in the world we have built where there is the permanant pursuit to achieve more than what we manage to? knowing there can always be more we could obtain in a materialistic and ever growing industrial world. There will always be something unreachable that makes us believe we haven't done well enough. If you strive for the material and perishable aspects of what life brings you can never truly find contentness in the search for perfection. It doesn't exist.
Life is moments. It's the lift ups after the drops down. Its the people that share those moments with you and its the ability to find contentness with what is actually real and meaningful and lasting for the time we are here. Because nothing actually lasts when all life as we know it doesn't...
I'm proud of the circle surrounding me and the realness of those people. I'm proud of my boy and how he is flourishing in his own unique beautiful way.
I'm satisfied with the aspirations I now have determination to achieve and I'm proud of what those aspirations have achieved so far
I'm excited for the plans that are set going forward and the new memories I know are coming this year. I'm excited to go adventuring and exploring things I've always dreamed of seeing for myself.
I'm happy that that tiny circle I had has grown to include wonderful friends that I share interests with and embrace my quirkiness that I can go do these things amazing things with..
Life isn't perfect. Some days I'm not happy. Some days are rubbish. Sometimes things go wrong. Sometimes the past comes back..
But...
I'm as happy as I could ask to be right now. I don't wake up dreading each day any more. Life is better than I expected it to be a year a go. Things are brighter and easier to face with every day and most of all...
I'm less alone than I have ever been and I genuinely feel that way..
Life isn't ever perfect but we can still make something beautiful out of the flawed and imperfect. It's all about perception, bravery, determination and growth..
Don't hold back in life or strive for perfection. Thrive at being you and doing what you love and things that makes you stronger to face the next day, braver to overcome any challenge and shine brighter with each moment that comes to pass.
Do things that make you want to do more and make you want to keep exploring the wonders of living, that make you want to wake up the next day and make you eager to sleep to see what incredible new moments get to come next.
Life isn't perfect but if it was.. would the good moments mean as much as they do or even exist? Would life just be existing in a repetitive regime where we don't have ambitions to break the norm and be unique from one another would we be where we are as a species if life had been perfect already? Would WE exist?
No highlights, no recognition or gratitude for the good things life does give us as individuals. Building a family wouldn't be what it is, becoming successful at your dreams wouldn't exist because we wouldn't of needed to dream of better for ourselves in the first place.
Maybe imperfections exist so life can be unique and good moments can exist, be appreciated and truly memorable? So don't Strive for perfect...
Strive for moments that matter...
Don't Strive for perfect..
Strive for happy 💖
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