07/08/2024
Soooooo my did not go as planned 😅
About 2 months before my little girl was due, I went in for a routine check, I already had needing insulin and we both have , but I end up nearly passing out from low blood sugar and also had incredibly high blood pressure, was immediately admitted to the ward with , was supposed to go on a babymoon holiday on the Monday (this was a Thursday appointment) and was hoping to get things under control enough to go to not too far away... unfortunately my blood pressure was taking some effort to control at all, both our heart rates were not ideal, and tldr I ended up spending just over 2 months in hospital, then getting sent away from home due to a ableist midwife not understanding while I may appear fine and well, I was, in fact, very much NOT fine and well and being refused iv fluids leaving me even more dehydrated and exhausted on top of damaging my back on my first attempt to shower, being radioactive for a few days due to multiple xrays and heart scans etc, all following an that was supposed to be a chilled induction due to complications, and ended up speedier than planned.... I slept through my alarm a couple of times during night feeds....... and apparently that meant I was a negligent parent who was incapable of feeding and changing my own baby! Complaints were made and further support/action is also currently happening, as honestly my treatment on the transitional ward was absolutely abysmal in so many places!
And all that is only a fraction of the complications and what I went through during the last few months...
But we are finally back home as of about a whole month ago now! All throughout my little one has been generally healthy luckily, and I'm... ( *´・ω)/(;д; )
Was very nice to go to a meet with my little one! And she behaved perfectly and looked adorable! And generally starting to get back to some kind normality and the family life I've always dreamed of!
(Just need a bigger place now....)
I know it sounds cheeky but if you've made it this far and happen to have any spare change I will post my PayPal link here:
https://www.paypal.me/jennyneko
Unfortunately despite being on top of my finances no problem before hospitalisation nearly 3 months total away from home in places with limited resources takes it's toll and any donations would be greatly appreciated m(。_。;))m
Hoping to post more content soon, adding parenting to the random , meme, , art etc content! 𓍯𓂃𓏧♡
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