19/05/2025
An anonymous story from a member of our community. It has been a while since we have posted one of these, but it is where Cute Cartel started; the sharing of stories and support and solidarity we can show through the act of this.
TW: s*xual ass*ult, r*pe, s*xual viol*nce
So, I’m 35 and as a younger woman, I had a good few occasions where I was taken advantage of, SA’d and even r*ped. I’d never done anything about them because I guess I didn’t think it would be taken seriously, or maybe I was being dramatic. Fast forward to 2020, a male friend asked to stay at mine. He stayed 2 nights and on the second night, he decided to take full advantage of me and pinned me down by my neck, he then put his fingers inside my bum, as far as he could go. He scraped my faeces out of me and masturbated with it, upon ej*******on, he slapped my faeces and his cm onto my face and then wiped my faeces all over my body. I was shocked, embarrassed, hurt and most of all had been massively betrayed by a “friend”. I reported this time, it took 4 years and 2 trials at Crown Court with a jury, but he got a 6 year sentence, serving 4. I am never going to fully get over what had happened that night, it changed my whole life and my outlook on men. I am still positive about life, and I still trust people, but it has made me so aware of how much I allowed men to take advantage of me. I hope this helps anyone wanting to report ❤️❤️❤️❤️